Friends....

[RaineBow]

So, today when two of my friends and I were walking, something 'happened' that made one of my friends believe that the other one had a crush on me. One of the friends that was walking with me, had helped me carry my bag when it was slipping off my shoulders. The other one made a comment that sort of made the rest of my day awkward, she said that the other tried to kiss me or something like that. At first, I thought she was just trying to mess with me, especially when she started asking other friends if they thought the one friend liked me, and they answered yes. Then, later that day, I started thinking about all the times I've spent with this friend, and all of the evidence is in the favor of friend number 2( the one who thinks the other one has a crush on me). So...it's sort of awkward for me to even stand next to friend number 1. Does anyone have tips? Or if anyone has ever been through something similar, how did you deal with it? I don't think there is anything wrong with anyone being gay or lesbian, it's just that I'm straight. :what:

[nick]

Welcome to VT.

I think you should talk to the friend that might have a crush on you and find out if its true. If it is then explain kindly that you are straight and not interested but try not to let it spoil your friendship or make you behave any differently towards her.

[Kaius]

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[Ambrosia]

Honestly people these days are very creeped out by the thought of someone of the same sex possibly liking them. There is NOTHING WRONG with people being in any way attracted to the same sex and you shouldn't feel awkward around them. For all you know it's not even true and everything going on is just started from that one tiny comment. You have to be open and maybe even ask. Don't ruin a friendship over a possible crush!

[Quahog]

Let your friend know that you are not Lesbian, but you can still support her, and be a good friend. I'm pretty sure that she was just playing around as a friend, but just let her know that you are not attracted to women, but you can still be a nice friend to her.

[sieg]

she may be just a nice and thoughtful person, but if you're not interested drop some hints, she'll get it.

[RaineBow]

Honestly people these days are very creeped out by the thought of someone of the same sex possibly liking them. There is NOTHING WRONG with people being in any way attracted to the same sex and you shouldn't feel awkward around them. For all you know it's not even true and everything going on is just started from that one tiny comment. You have to be open and maybe even ask. Don't ruin a friendship over a possible crush!



I don't think there's anything wrong with people liking someone who is the same gender as them, it's just awkward for me because if she does like me, I don't reciprocate those feelings back. She's a wonderful friend, and I would support her, it's just I would feel guilty .... I guess. Thanks , I'll take your advice and ask her to see if if my other friend was just being a jerk (because the friend who suspects that the other one has a crush on me, can be a jerk sometimes, and messes with people :rolleyes:) :yes: