No need for reason when you have a heart.

[Myrnodin]

Im usually a simple person, and I succeed most of the time at not troubling myself with my feelings. But recently if found myself in a quite awkward... situation:

Even if I have a "good" relationship with my classmates, I forbid myself of getting attached to people except for those I deem trustworthy. (a bit of arrogance there? anyone?) But they seem to trust me for some odd reason.

The thing is, that there is a girl, who I always perceived as "cute", but there was something about her that made me stay away, something I couldn't see... A few days ago however, Y found her crying and lowered my guard a second to try and reach her. And guess what? It worked.... But now I have two issues:

1. I like her... a lot.
2. That thing I couldn't place about her? Shes lesbian and in a relationship with some other girl.

The thing is, that its a decaying relationship the one she has, and ive been thinking about "figthing" for her. But I cant bring myself to do it with true determination.

Why?

Because I know myself, and I know I can manipulate people easily, and sometimes I do it involuntarily, and shes a really nice "innocent" girl, and i dont want to bring her into something that is gonna end up hurting her. Its not some mad love I feel for her, I can control myself, but id like to hear your thoughts on this: Should I try and intervene, or just treat her like a "patient" or something like that?

- Josh.

[Charleigh]

Ok hun, you know yourself she is a lesbian, so dont try and hit on her as that might be really offputting. I would just be a good friend to her and ask her if she is ok every once in a while and reassure her that you are there for her and you can speak openly and honest.

Dont treat her differently because you have feelings for her and she is a lesbian and in a current relationship with another woman. Treat her like your friend. I would try and ditch your feelings for her, and DONT tell her about them.

Good luck hun, im here if you need anything.
:hug:

[Quahog]

If she is Lesbian, she probably won't be attracted to you. The best thing you can do is be friends with her, and be someone that can support her. Even though you say you can manipulate people, don't try to manipulate her, that would be the worst thing that you can do. Just stand by her side, and be a good friend.

Even though you can't be boyfriend and girlfriend with her, you can still be someone that she can count on, and hopefully you guys can be great friends.

[Myrnodin]

Well she isnt really lesbian, shes bi, but I dont really like tags. Anyways, i decided today im gonna stay out of this, and actually try and help her get back her relationship. :)