Confused! help

[RLuna]

So I recently decided to admit it to myself that i am bi. This new guy started to work where i do and hes amazingly cute. I have a huge crush on him and i hate it. Hes not gay or bi so its pointless. But i think about him everyday. I love everything about him, his smile, his personality (from what I know of). I dont talk to him much because he makes me sooo nervous. I dont know how to handle it. I have never felt this much about someone. Well unfortunately there is someone else i like, she is a girl

She likes me and i like her. I wanted to ask her out on Valentines day but I couldnt go through with it. Everytime im with her, i cant help but think of the guy from work. Me and this guy dont talk at all though. I want to but Im afraid he hates me. I cant tell why he doesnt talk. it could be because i dont, or maybe he is hidding something. So in your opinion, what should i do.? Ask out the girl who i dont completely like, or not ask her out and keep dreaming about the guy who isnt bi or gay and who i dont even know. Its really tough. I cant stop thinking about him though, he makes my heart skip beats and I would do anything for him :wub:

[Myrnodin]

Hey there, I read your story and personally, I would pick the guy. I look at it this way: Not being in a relationship isnt really something THAT bad, you get some time to tend yourself. :) But being in a relationship you dont really want does harm you and your unwanted couple, and that isnt something very nice to get into. Perhaps you dont know much about this other guy, and maybe he hates you, or perhaps he just gets nervous around you too, and maybe you could discover his bi/gay side. (Faces we see, hearts we dont) Id recommend you try to get to know this guy, if that is what you want, fight for him, dont just surrender. And whatever you do, be honest to that other girl, it is never good to hurt someone out of selfishness.

Hope I helped a bit. :)

Regards,

Josh.