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cpuguy18
February 16th, 2011, 11:10 AM
just had sex with a guy and realized im not attracted to men

Advanced A
February 16th, 2011, 11:19 AM
Uhm congrats? what were u looking for?

I dont think id be able to have sex with a guy, but i think im slightly attracted to a few.. im unsure :P

Are you happy about that? or not so?

Quahog
February 16th, 2011, 03:44 PM
Well you experimented, and you realized that you are not curious about being with the same sex. It happens to lots of people. They think they might be bi-sexual or gay, but it turns out they really wouldn't. For some, it's harder for them to accept, and realize what their sexuality is, and hopefully, now for sure, you have figured out what yours is.

Apollo.
February 16th, 2011, 06:57 PM
I think that is part of experimenting. But being gay or bi isn't just about having sex, it's about having a relationship with a guy straight people don't get married just to have sex they get married because they love each other

LilTurtle
February 17th, 2011, 08:29 PM
you needed to have sex with a guy to know that? interesting.

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Sosaku
February 17th, 2011, 09:26 PM
understandable, but like LilTurtle, you had to have sex for that? Now i can kind of get that experimenting can make you think differently, but (now i could be wrong) but the way it sounds to me, is that because you (maybe) didn't have "good" sex, that it isn't what you want. I'm sorry if this sounds mean, but before you determine it on the fact that you just had sex, think like more into the future. A relationship doesn't have to be centered around sex. That's why friendships are sometimes stronger than two people who "love" each other, and have sex all the time. (not saying you are) I just wish you'd think a little more before determining that you are straight. (wow...i sound like the opposite of my mom...sorry)

cpuguy18
February 19th, 2011, 10:26 AM
understandable, but like LilTurtle, you had to have sex for that? Now i can kind of get that experimenting can make you think differently, but (now i could be wrong) but the way it sounds to me, is that because you (maybe) didn't have "good" sex, that it isn't what you want. I'm sorry if this sounds mean, but before you determine it on the fact that you just had sex, think like more into the future. A relationship doesn't have to be centered around sex. That's why friendships are sometimes stronger than two people who "love" each other, and have sex all the time. (not saying you are) I just wish you'd think a little more before determining that you are straight. (wow...i sound like the opposite of my mom...sorry)

yesterday i had sex with another guy and found out that i dont like anal it hurts and i dont feel any pleasure from it. you guys can lock the tread

Infidelitas
February 23rd, 2011, 07:04 PM
It doesnt matter, curiosity, what else do i say

mr.sexy_bomb
February 23rd, 2011, 10:36 PM
Hmm Interesting

disassociation2016
July 22nd, 2011, 02:26 AM
Glad you found yourself. Not so happy about the fact that some other male probably got used.

DoctorWho
July 22nd, 2011, 03:26 AM
ur just curios :)

georgiamay
July 22nd, 2011, 03:41 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: