View Full Version : i am done
ackmedsgirl666
February 15th, 2011, 08:39 PM
i am so done now
i was a complete idiot to believe adam would be there for me
i am possibly a month a bit pregnant with his kid
all his promises just washed right over me
he was not only my bestfriend but we were a lil but more
but he hurt me
im worried for the baby
im worried for my life
i wanna kill myself and this baby so when its born i don;t have to see a reminder of him.......................
i hate my life so much right now
somebody please help me.........................
Quahog
February 15th, 2011, 09:42 PM
I'm so sorry that he isn't supporting you, with your pregnancy. Have you talked to him about it. I'm sure that if you talk about the problems with him, the both of you will be able to work things out together I'm sure. If you kill yourself, that baby will never be born, and you will be taking away the babies life as well. I don't want you to do that. Lots of guys walk out of relationships because the woman is pregnant, and you just need to talk to him about it. I'm sure he doesn't know how to react to the whole situation about you being pregnant, and maybe if you guys just use each others support, and stick together through the whole thing, I'm sure that everything will be alright. I really don't want you to hurt yourself, or do anything to the baby, that would be a bad idea. We are always here to talk, if you still need help.
RAWWR
February 16th, 2011, 10:45 AM
I haven't got much advice at the moment, and will try and come back later and write more, but for now:
PLEASE please please stay safe for your baby. You have no idea how lucky you are, that little baby will love you unconditionally, it relys on you to keep it safe. Please, for your babys sake, stay safe. <3
Love.Hate
February 16th, 2011, 04:45 PM
I haven't got much advice at the moment, and will try and come back later and write more, but for now:
PLEASE please please stay safe for your baby. You have no idea how lucky you are, that little baby will love you unconditionally, it relys on you to keep it safe. Please, for your babys sake, stay safe. <3
I couldn't agree more!
You are this childs mother, do you really want to be guilty for two deaths?
Your baby has done nothing wrong, it wants you to love it and care for it..
Please stay safe.
Suicide is not worth it!!
You are so much better than this, stay strong hun, this is a bad faze you will overcome it.
Everyone can hurt you, your never 100% safe.
You are strong enough, you can do this! you dont have to be alone in all of this, and when you have your baby that is all that will matter. And you will regret these silly thoughts.
Please don't. Always here <3
Fiction
February 17th, 2011, 05:18 PM
Cutting and Self Harm :arrow: Mental Crisis Forum
So you are POSSIBLY pregnant? How likely is it? Because I know what it is like to panic over thinking you are pregnant, but really have nothing to worry about. You should take a test so that you know for sure, and have more time to decide what to do if you are pregnant.
If you are pregnant then you have two choices, keep it or abort it. I'm not saying either is the "easy option", because neither is, but both options are there for you. If you really don't think you can cope with a reminder of him then that other option is always there.
As the others have said, suicide will not help anything. It'll only take your life as well as any possible baby you have. There is always hope, however bad it seems.
Feel free to contact me if you need me. :)
sieg
February 19th, 2011, 09:43 PM
it sounds like you dont care much for the baby, if this is true, have you considered abortion? and the VT community is always here to support you.
ackmedsgirl666
February 23rd, 2011, 09:05 AM
mhmmm... now the bad news
its gotten easier but now its harder. i lost the baby 2 days ago because i was hemhorraging very badly and thats when i knew. i called the babys dad told him the news and its funny but he almost cried.
he said that if him and amy break up he will try again with me which is good i guess but now we are waiting until i am older.....
17 and pregnant... that was the worst mistake of my life
but thanks guys for your support
<3
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