My older brother.

[Kaya]

He has no respect for me or my room. He just knocked my closet door down and then accused me of starting to break it, then "waiting for someone to come and break it." He starts arguments with everyone. Then he leaves because "everyones against him." I don't know what to do anymore.
If he doesn't get his way he gets so angry and he hits me and kicks me.


Why is he only abusive to me?

[The Madness.]

Probably because you're smaller than him and he feels he's more powerful over you. Talk to him about it. When he's mad, don't get mad too. It'll only make the situation worse with both people mad. Stay calm and wait for him to calm down then talk to him.

[Quahog]

Even though your brother and sister, you have to put your foot down. It's unconditional love. You have to set things straight with him. I totally agree with Katie. He is taking advantage, just because you are the sister. You need to have a chat with him, if he gets defense, then you need to have a talk with your parents about it, especially if he is hitting you.

[cheergurl]

ya omg im so sorry! Do your parents know how bad it is? Talk to him and put your foot down. I tink he feels like he can do this, like he has a right to, and he dosent. Wait till your parents, or someone who can protect u is around and tell him to f'off! No matter how big or strong he gets he never has a right to touch you, period!

[Kaya]

Yes, they know. I'll try talking to him.

[LittleMonsterMike]

Wait wait wait He Kicks you and hits you? what kind of a brother is that? sound like your brother may just be .... well a brute i wouldn't put up with it don't let him get to you he slaps you around slap him back

[Kaya]

Yea. He's done worse....a lot worse.. I'm like...very afraid of him. I had a dream once that he tried to stab me, and he went around and killed everyone.