gay? straight or bi?

[jampepjack]

i am 14 and attracted to both boys and girls i watch pornos but can not.seem to wank fully to a lesbian or.watever.etc? help me i want to be straight!!!!!! thanx

[Vonn]

You can't 'become' straight. Either you are or you aren't.

[smitty35]

you are either str8 curious or bi curious

[sieg]

you want to be straight do you?
well you must eliminate all curves and angles on your body first.
but seriously you cant "become straight" you can pose as a straight person and live your life as an unsatisfying lie, or you can live a happy bisexual life.

[Quahog]

You can't choose what sexuality you are. You have to accept it. Even though you are probably curious/confused about what your sexuality is, it seems as though you are bi-sexual.

[nick]

There is more to sexuality than just what your porn preference is and its not just about who you might like to "try things" with. Its more about emotional attraction, who you think you could love and form relationships with. Dont be in any hurry to jump to conclusions or attach meaningless labels to yourself. Keep calm about things, your hormones are most likely raging at your age and could take a while to settle down. At the end of the day you are what you are and its not something that you can choose or change.

[Lights]

As great as it would be, you can't change your sexuality. Although we're not sure if you're born with your sexuality or if you develop into it through environmental surroundings, we know you can't change your mindset.

But like Nick said, it's about far more than just porn preference. It's primarily about who you're emotionally attracted to, and who you would like to share a relationship with. People can pretend to be something they're not (in this case sexuality) but they'll never achieve real happiness because they're preventing themselves from meeting that special person who makes their heart go numb and excited.

Dont try to change who you are - you would regret it.