Seems like forever since...

[grstl]

I have figured and (with some help from being on VT) that I am pretty much a gay guy who still has a girlfriend (she now knows). I can have sex with her more than I want now but it has been a while since I had a really good time with a guy. I am dying to.... but at the moment I don't have the buddy or privacy to do hat I really want. So, how do you cope when you can't make physically satisfying sexual contact. So far masturbation and internet aren't enough to ease the urge.

[nick]

There is nothing else. Either you have the real thing or you masturbate. Its the same for everyone.

[sieg]

i handle loneliness by constantly hugging all my guy friends jokingly, and coming up with crazy fantasies.

[Quahog]

You have to be patient. I'm sure you will find the person that you are looking for. Love doesn't come as easy as it does for others.

You have to love yourself, if you want to love someone else. I'm just curious, you have a girlfriend, but you want a boyfriend at the same time?

[CryWolf]

Don't let it drive you to desperation. You're just now starting to figure some things out. You'll get opps to do more stuff. And you will see them.

[Fourth Dimension]

i handle loneliness by constantly hugging all my guy friends jokingly, and coming up with crazy fantasies.

this only the fantasies part though

[Infidelitas]

im finding it hard to find love

[HeroesAndCons]

Fantisise and bate

[Lights]

You've got to come out to people, otherwise nobody will ever come up to you about something like that. If you don't come out, in other people's eyes you're just another straight heterosexual guy.

[LilTurtle]

im 16 and gay and have no problem being together with my bf. i dont understand the problem. my problem is that i no longer have a bf but when i did being together was not a problem

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