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grstl
February 14th, 2011, 11:00 AM
When my girlfriend and I started having sex, we had two issues come up. She said after the first few times that she felt kind of stretched and uncomfortable down there and since then there have been times that she is really dry and it gets uncomfortable for her even if she says she is horny. Are these common when you are in puberty? (We were pretty far in puberty and have only done stuff with each other)
Just to compare…
Age?
Age at first time?
Both virgins?
How many times?
How many partners?
Problems you had (no detailed stories):
nick
February 14th, 2011, 11:16 AM
A girls wetness is affected by where she is in her monthly cycle, a little extra lubrication may be needed occasionally, but generally if you pay proper attention to foreplay she shouldnt be dry.
Fred
February 19th, 2011, 08:05 AM
How much natural lubricant a girl produces is about as individual and variable as any other part of anyone's body. However, I kind of believe that if you're using a condom (which you hopefully are) It's ALWAYS a good idea to use artificial lubricant, as even seemingly large amounts of natural lubricant can get dried up by the latex, risking condom breakage and just generally being less comfortable for anyone.
As for feeling 'stretched', 90% of the time losing your virginity is accompanied by an armada of odd sensations and changes in bodily functions, so I doubt it'd last.
And the survey:
Age? 16
Age at first time? 15
Both virgins? Yes
How many times? Not sure. 10-15?
How many partners? Just one very special girl :)
Problems you had (no detailed stories): The worst one and the one that I still have is not being able to 'get it up fully' at the time. Also the first few times we had to stop because it hurt her too much.
Hope this helped a bit :)
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andy111
February 19th, 2011, 12:21 PM
Age? 16
Age at first time? 15
Both virgins? Yes
How many times? 5-10
How many partners? so far 3
Problems you had (no detailed stories): my worst problem happened to me on my first time. my girlfriend at the time was a virgin could not fully take m, because it hurt her way to much. she even cried
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