I gave my godfather a handjob.....and I blame myself for leading him on

[jake-30]

Im 15 years old and My godfather Adam (27 years old) just got back from Iraq and I missed him a ton so he told me we would hang out after our family is hosting a party for him, then we would go back to his apartment and we would hang out there and I would spend the weekend over there. So we got to his apartment and it was late and he came into the room wearing nothing but tighty whities and I was just wearing boxers and he got under the covers and he told me that he was really tired and I asked him if he wanted a massage and he told me he would really like one so I started rubbing his back and his shoulders then I turned him over to massage his chest and I saw he was kinda....hard and well....you know what happened after that.*

[Mysterious Skin]

So whats Your Question?

[jake-30]

Do you think that I led him on from the massage to the handjob?

[Mysterious Skin]

Most Likely. But there could of been other factors.

[jake-30]

Like what other factors?

[mr.sexy_bomb]

hmm is he like family?

[Fushigi]

well i guess he likes it ... so dont worry about it..

[CryWolf]

If he didn't want to he wouldn't have let you. How did he treat you after?

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yea did things change after you blew him, like the next day?, did you guys talked about it?

[Sebastian Michaelis]

He didn't blow him

But hey dude things happen in the heat of the moment and I highly doubt that a 27 to would want to be in a relationship with a 15 yo so no I don't think he expects any thing else.

[jake-30]

Yes, I didn't blow him...although I WAS tempted but the morning after we were fine, nothing akward at all. Then we shared the bed again the night after

[CryWolf]

you cant rape the willing man.

[Beats]

XD Wow. Just a little bit I think you led him on. But, if you didn't want ut to happen then why do it?

[sdude]

Hey, he's the adult. He should have stopped you. But if he didn't, and you are ok with it...I wouldn't worry. But you probably should talk to him about it.

[MoveAlong]

Led him on as in seduced him? Maybe, if you want to interpret it that way. But you could just say one thing led to another. I really don't see a problem with it, especially if you two were alright with it/enjoyed it.

[ryp998]

as long as things werent odd the next morning your good i would say

[oreolover]

i agree with movealong just as long as ur cool with it is ok :)

[canyon]

Im 15 years old and My godfather Adam (27 years old) just got back from Iraq and I missed him a ton so he told me we would hang out after our family is hosting a party for him, then we would go back to his apartment and we would hang out there and I would spend the weekend over there. So we got to his apartment and it was late and he came into the room wearing nothing but tighty whities and I was just wearing boxers and he got under the covers and he told me that he was really tired and I asked him if he wanted a massage and he told me he would really like one so I started rubbing his back and his shoulders then I turned him over to massage his chest and I saw he was kinda....hard and well....you know what happened after that.*

I personally think that this was wrong. You said that you're 15 and he's 27. That's an age difference of 12 years..
I think that it was extremely wrong of him to even think about wanting to get a hand job from you, much less actually let you do it to him. This is just me right now, but what I would do is tell your parents or whoever is in charge of you. I know it sucks, but it's wrong of him to expect this sort of stuff from you.

[scuba steve]

I personally think that this was wrong. You said that you're 15 and he's 27. That's an age difference of 12 years..
I think that it was extremely wrong of him to even think about wanting to get a hand job from you, much less actually let you do it to him. This is just me right now, but what I would do is tell your parents or whoever is in charge of you. I know it sucks, but it's wrong of him to expect this sort of stuff from you.

And risk his godfather potentially being put on the sex offender list, if his mum and dad got angry about it? Plus it would just cause chaos in the family. If the op's fine with it then he should just let it be and acknowledge the fact that a massage does sound like leading someone on and had as much responsibility for what happened.

[Kevvvv]

Listen dude whether you wanted to or not he's the adult and shoulda stopped you. And he's your godfather so just more reason why he shouldnt of let you. You should talk about it with him and don't blame yourself for what happened. Its truly not your fault that you got caught up in the moment. Sometimes stuff happen and you don't notice what youve done till after it's been done.

[ponygon101]

I think you sort of led him on. I think it was nice of you to offer him a massage but you could have said "no" to him and you may have wanted to hide your hard on. But he's also to blame to, he is the adult. Both of you had your part in it.

[adam1995]

Just an observation... When you were born your "godfather" was 12 years old. Why did your parents make a 12 year old your godfather?

[LilTurtle]

dude---that is just so wrong on so many levels.

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[JayJ]

dude---that is just so wrong on so many levels.

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It's not really wrong, godfather means a family friend not generally a member of the family. as for the age gap, age is just a number. technically it's illegal but if you're both conformable with it I see no problem.

[restricted NA]

he took advantage of you , your underage and he could have said stop. It is not your fault. Just stay away from him , or talk about [ but not alone ]. Don't dwell on the past either confront it or forget about it.

[Dorsum Oppel]

he took advantage of you , your underage and he could have said stop. It is not your fault. Just stay away from him , or talk about [ but not alone ]. Don't dwell on the past either confront it or forget about it.

He's not some defenseless little baby, there's no apparent emotional trauma, and his godfather never outright asked for it. Shit happens, no need to get all butthurt and blow things out of proportion.

[aaron4455]

na dude its alright not like he rapped u or anything forcefully like that but i think u did kinda lead him on

[tisdave]

Did you continue the night after?

I don't see too much wrong with it, except the family friend bit obviously.
But, do what you feel is right!

[juanito114]

Listen dude whether you wanted to or not he's the adult and shoulda stopped you. And he's your godfather so just more reason why he shouldnt of let you. You should talk about it with him and don't blame yourself for what happened. Its truly not your fault that you got caught up in the moment. Sometimes stuff happen and you don't notice what youve done till after it's been done.

i agree talk to him you both got caught up in the moment its human nature talk about it and come to a agreement

[jnyc]

i mean you could have stopped, he didn't forced you did he?
if you did it , is cause you wanted to.
he got the boner, you gave him the handjob.

[Jockstrapz]

OK this is rape wither you lead him on or not... hes the adult your the child... end of story.

[Jockstrapz]

My thoughts exactly!!!

[IbCrazy]

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[Justincredible]

Yeah, screw what they all say. He' just back from Iraq or wherever. One time. You rubbed one out on him. NO issue. Now, if it continues, it's freaky. Once, and you both want it, no big deal. Let it STOP here.

[jake-30]

I actually felt that I took advantage of him. I mean personally, he is very handsome. Very masculine with a super deep voice and he that I was his first handjob.....

[curiousboy333]

dude if u and him were totally cool with it then who cares? and ur not related or anything so i say stuff what the other guys said

[JayJ]

Yeah, screw what they all say. He' just back from Iraq or wherever. One time. You rubbed one out on him. NO issue. Now, if it continues, it's freaky. Once, and you both want it, no big deal. Let it STOP here.

A godfather as mentioned above is supposed to be like a farther to their godson, would you give your farther a handjob?

[smitty35]

I think that you did lead him to that. And it is very inapropriate, because he is your godfather

[Brandon K]

i think its kind of wrong he is 27 and your 15

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

I don't think you have to tell but I really would recommended not doing i again till your. 18 after that ifbyou want he is all your s

[walpurgusknight]

whats the point of this
if you like what you did then good for you, if you dont, dont do it again!

in my personal opinion, engage with your own age

[Vkid]

sounds like he considered it a bonding experience...and yea i wud say u kind let him on, but he also kinda too advantage

i wudn't make a regular habit out of it

the age difference is too big, and ur like family are u not?

[hollisterboi95]

Well if you did it without hesitation and he let you then I guess it's okay, as long as he didnt force you to do it. I don't think u led him on, stuff just happened and that's all just if u haven't talked about it, then leave it at that.

[screammonster123]

it may or may not have been you
like you said he has been in iraq for a long time so he needed a sexual release other then him self
i personally wouldnt have done it but its just like what guys do with friends and brothers
as long as nothing is weird i wouldnt mention it but thats your choice :)

[Lee Chan]

um wait what???

[Spock]

wooh

[Short Circuit]

Hey, he's the adult. He should have stopped you.

Thats where your comment should have stopped.

[Can'tHelpIt]

I mean i don't see the problem only the age difference it was just a bit of experiment

[Electra Heart]

Do whatever you think is right... if someone finds out, depending on where you live, he could be arrested after fair trial. I wouldn't let it happen again but I encourage you to talk about it with him to clear the air and get your stories straight.

[Peep Show]

That shouldn't happen thats wrong.

[ShatteredWings]

OP banned, old thread, locking