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ShyGuyInChicago
February 13th, 2011, 09:31 PM
http://www.aolnews.com/nation/article/woman-wins-9-million-from-her-husbands-mistress/19410945

Woman Wins $9 Million From Husband's Mistress
Updated: 16 days ago
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Mara Gay
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(March 23) -- It can pay to have an affair -- if you're an aggrieved spouse, that is.

A North Carolina woman won $9 million from her husband's mistress after a jury sided with her in court last week.

"My main message is to all those women out there who might have their eyes on some guy that is married -- to not come between anybody," the woman, Cynthia Shackelford, 60, said today on ABC's "Good Morning America." "It's not good to go in there. It hurts the children. My children are devastated. I'm devastated."

But unlike millions of other wives who have been cheated on, Shackelford, at least, is being compensated for her heartache.

She sued her husband's mistress, Anne Lundquist, 49, under North Carolina's "alienation of affection" law. According to ABC, Shackelford, a lawyer, told the court Lundquist broke up her marriage. Last week, a jury agreed and awarded Shackelford $5 million in compensatory damages and $4 million in punitive damages.

Shackelford's husband, Allan Shackelford, maintains that he and his wife were separated before his affair with Lundquist. According to North Carolina's Greensboro News and Record, he faces contempt of court charges for not paying court-ordered spousal support.

Tina Schuchman, a family law attorney, said the North Carolina law is outdated. "It's ridiculous. It's absolutely ridiculous. And the trend is more and more toward shutting it down," she told CBS.

But Shackelford says Lundquist used "her luring ways" to go after her husband of 33 years.

"She's the one that came in between us as far as her luring ways. ... I had plenty of proof from e-mails, phone records, spending that she alienated him from me," Shackelford told CBS. "She used work and other ways to get in and get friendly with him, and it's like those Lifetime movies or whatever that you see. ... She just worked her way."

Lundquist is appealing the decision. She told the News and Record she doesn't have the money. "I'm so caught off-guard by everything," she said. "I don't have a lot of money."

Seven other states have similar laws regarding infidelity.

Personally, I feel that adultery is not the business of the government. However, if I could I would definitely sue my spouse's lover.

Korashk
February 13th, 2011, 09:40 PM
Absolutely ridiculous.

TopGear
February 13th, 2011, 10:40 PM
Absolutely ridiculous.

Absolutely agree.

Amnesiac
February 13th, 2011, 10:47 PM
Marriage isn't natural. Humans are biased towards changing partners over the course of their lives.

Stop being a jealous ass and get over it.

You don't need to ruin someone else's life by taking all their money to compensate for your absolute bullshit 'heatbreak'.

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Bluesman
February 15th, 2011, 07:06 PM
http://www.aolnews.com/nation/article/woman-wins-9-million-from-her-husbands-mistress/19410945



Personally, I feel that adultery is not the business of the government. However, if I could I would definitely sue my spouse's lover.

Well seeming that it would have been a civil case you could say that it was never the business of the government. It settled something between 2 people with the government serving as a mediator.

Personally I'd say it was not ridiculous, but absolutely correct. If someone wants to break their vows and screw more than one person then don't get married. If you want to screw someone else once you're married, then get a divorce. They all knew what they signed up for when they got married, and they chose to do something like this. Karma's a real bitch.

ShaneK
February 15th, 2011, 08:51 PM
A new level of crazy.

The Joker
February 21st, 2011, 05:02 AM
Why should the lover or mistress be punished for the cheating spouse's actions? They may not have even knew the person wasn't single.

gingeylover14
February 21st, 2011, 08:04 AM
oh not only would i sue his lover i would burn his dick off while it was on him so he could never hurt another girl again n this way i dnt care bout the prision time

embers
February 21st, 2011, 10:03 AM
oh not only would i sue his lover i would burn his dick off while it was on him so he could never hurt another girl again n this way i dnt care bout the prision time

Bit harsh.

The Dark Lord
February 21st, 2011, 01:43 PM
oh not only would i sue his lover i would burn his dick off while it was on him so he could never hurt another girl again n this way i dnt care bout the prision time

No, you wouldn't burn his dick off. Although if you do, have fun in prision

kevinjk
February 21st, 2011, 01:45 PM
agreed with austin, ridiculous

Korashk
February 21st, 2011, 05:53 PM
Although, to answer the question asked in the title, yes. You should be able to sue your husband's mistress. However, if it's for what is mentioned in the OP it shouldn't be possible for you to win.