Camming - Have You?/Would You?

[Orpheus]

OK. I have a really good internet friend - We've never met in person - he lives several states away. He was in college when we started chatting about 3 years ago, but he's graduated now and working. We can and have talked about anything and everything - no topic is taboo. He was a wrestler in college and I've seen several pictures of him on the internet and in sports pages in his singlet. He's pretty hot. He's also sent me a pic of him out of his singlet - and the dude's packin. I've posted plenty of pics and sent him the kind of pics you can't post on MySpace. Although he's str8 I know he likes those pics cause he keeps commentin about what I'm packin etc, etc. (Even tho I'm not totally hard in any of the pics, I've told him how many inches I got and everything.) He's hinted several times about gettin on cam. (Actually, I don't even have a cam - parent's rule, but a friend does that I've used before.) But this weekend he actually asked me if I'd j/o on cam "now that I'm 18". (My birthday was last week.) And he knows I've done it before (he doesn't really how how many times) so it's hard to say I won't do it. Funny thing is, if he were here in the room, I'd do it, no problem. But on the internet is different -- And I've been thinkin -- can anyone else see? Is there a record of it floating around the internet? Can I get in trouble? Have you and would you?

thanks.

[Quahog]

Don't do it. Know your instincts. You said yourself, it's the internet. Nothing is private. He isn't worth it.

[sieg]

internet is a tricky business, nothing is truly safe. if i were i wouldnt take the risk, though i'm very pre-cautious.

[sdude]

Yeah, go with your gut...and DON'T ever agree to meet him unless it is with friends and in a public place...you never know..

[Fushigi]

dont do it... u might saw ur vid on some porn sites.. so dont ever do it... u will regret it if ull do it..

[Maverick]

Getting involved with camming and doing this kind of shit on the internet is a pretty bad idea. Not only are you exposing yourself to someone you never met before but potentially to all of cyberspace too. Once something is out there on the internet and spread its impossible to get rid of it. You will potentially be putting yourself and your reputation at risk. What if somebody finds out? What will your family think? Friends?

The next thing you really need to be thinking about is why a college graduate that you claim to be very good looking and hot is doing online with a now 18 year old kid? Does that really make sense to you at all? He's that good looking and successful but can't get any sexual satisfaction/socialization in the real world? Are you sure he is who he claims to be? Have you seen him live on cam before? Otherwise if not he can be anyone pretending to be anything. And even if he looks the way he does why is he messing around with a young guy like you?

He could be a predator and you may not even know it. You have no idea what other people or kids he may be talking to online. I mean apparently he has time to go to college and wrestle supposedly and talk to you? Something doesn't seem right man..

This can all blow up in your face real fast. Predators get caught by police all the time. He can get caught and they can go through his computer and chat logs. The police can trace you down and question you about it. Its a potential for a big mess. If I were you, I would stop talking to this guy and never speak to him ever again. Pretend he never existed before it gets worse. Please.

[Beats]

Don't do it.
You may want to, but just imagine if a chick that you know somehow got ahold of /both/ sides of that video. Trust your instincts, bruh. :P Don't fall for something that I would fall for, find someone that you would actually, you know, trust no doubt. I wish you luck. :P

[Iron Man]

This seems like a situation where the classic "don`t talk to strangers" line sounds like a good idea. Seriously, what do your instincts tell you? And like Ant said, it is most likely a pedocreeper. I strongly advise you to cease communication with this guy.

[ccrunner]

I've done it and regret it get to know him better maybe meet with him but with other friends so you don't get physically hurt

[grstl]

I have only tried random camming and like it, but it would be scary for me to cam with someone in my area in case others found out. I am not totally out as a gay guy ( still have a girlfriend who knows now) so if anyone else found out it would be really awkward. I only try stuff in my area with guys I know and trust.

[Charleigh]

I wouldnt do it just incase he decided to post it somewhere. Also, if he gets pissed at you for some shit, he could be a cunt and post that on facebook or somewhere. I wouldnt risk it, I mean do it if you want to but there really isnt any point because then afterwards you would have to keep him sweet incase he shows anyone.

[Quick_Sylver]

If you have to ask, why would you even consider it?

[Apollo.]

If you are doubting this you obviously do not trust him 100%. So don't do it it could end up real bad if he posts it somewhere.

[willrod]

My general rule of thumb is- if you don't feel comfortable about doing something, go with your instinct and don't do it. As you say, there could be a slight possibility that others might end up seeing it- but in general, a person-to-person webcam chat is most likely safe. Then again, I've never used a webcam for something I'd be embarrassed about- so yeah, I'd definitely play on the side of caution and explain to him that you don't feel comfortable doing that. And don't let anyone pressure you into it, either.

[Mario T]

i wouldnt do it

[salty]

Done it. Can be fun

[smitty35]

well, since you are over 18 you can do it legally, but I know that you dont want to. Anything could happen if you do do it. My suggestion is not to do it! Do the right thing.

[Orpheus]

well, since you are over 18 you can do it legally, but I know that you dont want to. Anything could happen if you do do it. My suggestion is not to do it! Do the right thing.

Wait! How do you know that I don't want to. Actually, I'd love to if I knew that it wouldn't turn up on the internet an bite me in the ass.

UPDATE: I cammed with him. Nothin I'd be embarrassed about. But it was totally cool. Me an my buddy got on cam with him an just chatted. He was totally who he says he is. He was shirtless and I stripped off my shirt too. That was all. But I know he'd like to do more. So would I. Now every time I chat with him (not on cam) we talk about stuff an I get totally boned an j/o.