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Dunce
February 11th, 2011, 01:02 PM
I've been questioning my sexuality for 2 and a half years.. it's not crazy anymore. Like, it doesn't fluctuate anymore, I just feel like I'm not straight, bi or a lesbian, but I'm not asexual either. I used to like boys, then it was girls, now it's kind of neither, but I dont feel asexual... I don't know what I like. Seeing as it's been this long and it's calmed down should I just accept that I will never choose a sexuality? Like.. questioning doesnt last this long, I'm sure. Do you think this is it??

Quahog
February 11th, 2011, 05:31 PM
Even though you don't feel asexual, that's pretty much what it is. There is nothing wrong in questioning your sexuality. As many people are curious about being with the same sex, or both sexes. Sometimes, people don't like either sex, so they are asexual.

You were probably bi-sexual, but then realized you don't like men or women, so you classified yourself as asexual.

For now, if you want to question to sexuality, it's perfectly fine, until you are able to know for sure, whether or not what sexuality you are.

sieg
February 11th, 2011, 06:13 PM
sounds like you are bisexual, but still questoning. though using pointless labels only hurts in the end, do what makes you happy.

Dunce
February 11th, 2011, 06:16 PM
sounds like you are bisexual, but still questoning. though using pointless labels only hurts in the end, do what makes you happy.

I'm not really in a rush to label myself or anything.. but I think labelling saves alot of confusion :)

ShaneK
February 11th, 2011, 07:24 PM
jus enjoy urself and don't question it. life is for livin not worrin

Sosaku
February 11th, 2011, 07:45 PM
ok, maybe you are just aromantic? its possible, my roommate is (imo) bisexual, but he says he is asexual towards women, but aromantic towards men. Its a possibility. Yes labels make it easier, and less confusing, but it gets annoying imo. just live life as though it were a newly written song. Be beautiful, even with no name(the name being the label)