Experiment...

[Johnnoo101]

Ok, so, i went on holidays with a family who we do a lot of stuff together with.
They have a son who is 13.
And I'm 15.
We watched porn and then j/o each other but i felt it was weird cause he was so younger then me.
Is this normal?
Cause i'm not gay, because i'm not a virgin, and i like this chick at the moment.
So, is there anything wrong about it?
Cause we were going to go further but i thought i was being a pedo or something...
Thanks for the help in advance (:

[John02Sandler]

if u two are ok with it then i dont see no problems

[Fruit_Tart.]

Umm... Two years isn't much of a difference. he might of seemed younger to you because he probably wasn't developed, but when you guys get older there won't be much difference. And I don't see any problem with experimenting. Your young and you need to be aware of your feelings now, better than finding out later when it might be too late.

[Johnnoo101]

Thanks guys (:

[Patrick_Pav]

yeah dude I'd just go for it if you want to, don't let a small age difference bother you, it'd be great fun :)

[CryWolf]

nothing wrong with messin around. gettin off is gettin off if ya know what i mean. two yrs is not a difference and it sounds like he enjoyed it:)

[shartalot17]

yeah nothing wrong with that

[Philleeep]

thats not pedoy, it would be if u were like 18 or 19 or 20 and he was 13

[sieg]

thats not really pedo, itd be weird if there was like 5+ year age difference, as for it being wrong, not really.

[Cosmic]

The concern is not so much the age gap, but how this can affect your friendship, and what the potential consequences of indulging in this sort of activity can be with regards to your social life. It's perfectly fine and normal to experiment, but have you thought about what he might do if you were to fall out, or if one was to take the feelings to the next level, where the other one isn't interested?

It's important to recognise what the possible consequences of this are, and be sure that you're prepared to take responsibility for that if things do go wrong. Also, if you were to get a girlfriend (you say there's a girl that you're interested in), ensure that this activity stops, because it is effectively being unfaithful, and unless you and her have previously agreed it to be okay, you should make sure it doesn't happen.

[Donkey]

The concern is not so much the age gap, but how this can affect your friendship, and what the potential consequences of indulging in this sort of activity can be with regards to your social life. It's perfectly fine and normal to experiment, but have you thought about what he might do if you were to fall out, or if one was to take the feelings to the next level, where the other one isn't interested?

It's important to recognise what the possible consequences of this are, and be sure that you're prepared to take responsibility for that if things do go wrong. Also, if you were to get a girlfriend (you say there's a girl that you're interested in), ensure that this activity stops, because it is effectively being unfaithful, and unless you and her have previously agreed it to be okay, you should make sure it doesn't happen.
Declan, this was just some guy he met on holiday. I would usually go for the whole friendship speech, but in this case it's irrelevant. Not really a problem at all if both parties were consenting.

[Jed69]

if you two are fine with it, then i dont see why not, just cuiosity. and besides 2 years isnt much difference anyway

[Cosmic]

Declan, this was just some guy he met on holiday. I would usually go for the whole friendship speech, but in this case it's irrelevant. Not really a problem at all if both parties were consenting.

" i went on holidays with a family who we do a lot of stuff together with"

I got the impression that meant they were like two family's that went on holiday together and knew each other well... am I wrong? If so, I apologise for the misunderstanding.

[Jockstrapz]

I personally believe in a two year rule, two years older, your good, two years younger, your good....... So your all cool as far as I'm concerned man :D

[Johnnoo101]

" i went on holidays with a family who we do a lot of stuff together with"

I got the impression that meant they were like two family's that went on holiday together and knew each other well... am I wrong? If so, I apologise for the misunderstanding.

You're right, i know the family quite well.

Thanks for all the help guys :D

[sdude]

Yeah, doesn't sound like you lured him into it, you 2 were just having fun...totally ok...2 years at our ages isn't much...

[JayJ]

Ok, so, i went on holidays with a family who we do a lot of stuff together with.
They have a son who is 13.
And I'm 15.
We watched porn and then j/o each other but i felt it was weird cause he was so younger then me.
Is this normal?
Cause i'm not gay, because i'm not a virgin, and i like this chick at the moment.
So, is there anything wrong about it?
Cause we were going to go further but i thought i was being a pedo or something...
Thanks for the help in advance (:

Theres nothing wrong with that at all you're both in the same sexual age category, did you guys end up taking it further?

[jimmy-magic]

as long as it's consentual and you are not forcing him into anything that he is uncomfortable with, or doesnt want to participate in, then i think its fine. Use are both young and keen and this sort of thing isnt un-common and there is nothing weird or gay about it.

[Donkey]

I got the impression that meant they were like two family's that went on holiday together and knew each other well... am I wrong? If so, I apologise for the misunderstanding.
Misread, sorry man. I still think it's a bit too relaxed and not close enough to get worried about though.

[tyler007]

No i that pretty normal, watching porn and jerking off with a friend is pretty cool. I agree that the age is not as issue, and im sure you are a lot of developed than he was so that might have made a bit ackward. But i think you sould have fun it, and go as far as you are both comfortable in the future. If both of you are still into.

[oreolover]

ya its normal as long as ur down and cool with it. enjoy urselves :)

[smitty35]

the title says it all, its just expirmenting, nothing more. It is normal. And you are only 2 years older than him not like 5

[jerry102]

if you 2 are fine with it then i don't see anything wrong

[kylek97]

I'm 13 and have done stuff with my 15yr old friend so i'd say it kool

[teenboi14]

2 years isnt that much of a difference I don't think it's a problem