I don't know what to do

[MrTeen14]

I haven't liked a girl for a while, and I'm not good with dealing with rejection. The last time I asked a girl out and she said no I bottled up my feelings for a good 6 months about anyone. Finally I found a girl I really like. I've felt lonely for a long time and I feel really strongly for her. Problem is she's just asked a good friend of mine to the dance next week. They've "liked" eachother for a while but they haven't started dating. Anyways I'm getting sick of it and I would be grateful for any advice on what to do or at least with how to deal with the empty feeling I've been feeling for a long time now. Thanks

[Quahog]

You shouldn't be afraid of rejection. It happens to all of us.

But if the two of you are together, why would she ask a friend of yours to the dance? Are you guys just friends? You should just tell her, if you guys are together, why didn't she just ask you. If it turns into a fight, just accept it.

Or you really don't have to bring it up. Let them go to the dance, as you say they haven't really dated, but it just puzzles me how if you two are with each other, why would she ask your friend to the dance?

[MrTeen14]

Were not together

[Quahog]

Well, she likes the guy, and she wanted to ask him to the dance.

She is in a relationship with the other guy, so she asked him. You aren't really in a relationship with her, so she didn't invite you.

Are you friends with her? Have you talked to her at all? You have to get to know her more, and get on a deeper level with her.