Shower in highschool

[Werwer12]

At my high school I am on the hockey team and we have to shower at school and I am afraid of getting hard infront of the other guys (I namely get random hard in the shower) I know they probably won't say any thing but they will think I Am gay. What should I do???

[walpurgusknight]

i had to shower all of jr high and a ton of guys are hard trust me..
but just put your hand over your package if you need to

if you get hard show it off.. who even cares ha

[iamniokekun]

Try thinking about other stuff. Or shower in a stall if they have them.

If not, just embrace it. It doesn't take much for a guy to get a boner. lol

[tar_heels]

You definitely won't be the only one...if you stress about it, you'll only freak yourself out more. Just relax and go with it.

[dmeek7]

Seriously you shouldn't get a boner while showering unless you really are gay. Just take your clothes off, grab your towel and soap and go shower, wash yourself like you would at home, and dry off and get dressed. Don't make it more complicated that it has to be. Don't overthink it. People look around at each other all the time. Doesn't mean they are gay, and if you look it doesn't mean you are gay either. It's just looking. Plus what happens in a shower in a guy's locker room stays in the locker room. No one really talks about it outside of there anyways. Plus if they do see your package, what are they gonna do? Tell people? That would make them seem gay and they don't want that. So you are fine. Take 'summertime94's advice and cover your package when you are walking around. It doesn't mean anything other than you are covering it up. Trust me. You just go do what i said and you'll get through it. Eventually it will be natural. I'm in the locker room at school so much to shower that i dont even shower at home. School's shower is my shower. It's so natural that you just go shower like it's nothing, even when there are how many guys around.

[Vkid]

if it's that big a fear for you just stick to business, go in/out as quick as possible and think of something else...

side note: i really wish people wud stop fearing being classified as "gay" ...even if they are, or are not....like seriously is it really THAT bad?

ppl need to stop making a huge deal about it and learn to tolerate difference... or, heaven forbid, embrace it... find another way to vent your unrelated frustrations, fears, and general unhappiness--cuz im totally done with this whole homophobia bullshit -.-

[Fruit_Tart.]

If your really afraid of popping one in the shower then you won't because of your fear. I'm sure when your scared or something you'll be more focused on your fear than anything else. I wouldn't worry if I were you and I am gay.