my mom

[kiki776]

idk why she yells at me all the time! even when i dont do ANYTHING, she gets so mad. im scared of her...... idk if its normal to be scared of moms. she doesnt want to be near me alot, she sits in her room on her laptop, and makes ME clean everything. even when its not mine! sometimes i feel she doesnt love me or care. i feel like running away but i wont. i cant cry around her, i cant live around her, and im scared. just scared............ i want to be held and loved...... her yelling frequently dosent cut it for me. any advice?

[Charleigh]

idk why she yells at me all the time! even when i dont do ANYTHING, she gets so mad. im scared of her...... idk if its normal to be scared of moms. she doesnt want to be near me alot, she sits in her room on her laptop, and makes ME clean everything. even when its not mine! sometimes i feel she doesnt love me or care. i feel like running away but i wont. i cant cry around her, i cant live around her, and im scared. just scared............ i want to be held and loved...... her yelling frequently dosent cut it for me. any advice?

Maybe when your mum yells at you, she thinks you are able to take the shit that she puts on your back? Sometimes (im not saying you are but) people do things that are not exactly positive, but they dont realise it until they get shouted at and critised because of it. Maybe you dont realise that you are doing something that is pissing your mum off?

You shouldnt be scared of anybody, dont let people intimidate you. You are a different person to your mother, and she might have shit going on and she takes it out on you thinking you are responsible to deal with it whilst she gets gets the shit off of her chest.

Your mum will always love you and care about you, you are her beautiful daughter. Your right hun, dont run away! You can cry, you can always cry and let shit out in that way. I dont really know your situation but, you can live with her depending on how she is and how you are treated and how you deal with the shit you get put in.

Maybe you can have quality time with your mum, ask her if you both can go for a walk or something, sometimes just making her a drink and sitting down tgether watching a movie is good. Good luck hun, im here if you ever need to talk.
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