I just asked her out to Prom.

[jhv222]

Well I just asked a girl out to prom today. I did it in a unique way, something that we both related to. She responded positively but said that she might be going to prom with another friend.

The way it sounded was like she was expecting someone else to ask her. She said she needed some time to think so when we saw eachother later I didnt bring it up.

I was just wondering what others feel about this situation. Im not sure if she is trying to say no, but in a nice way. (She is shy). Or if she really does need some time and want to think about it.

I dont plan on bringing up the Prom for awhile, since I dont want to seem annoying, but Im not sure how I should remind her and convince her to go to prom with me.

Any advice would be great. The main thing I want to do is convince her to go to prom with me. But I dont want her to feel like im forcing her to go with me.

Thanks,
Jason

[Quahog]

Just talk to her, but don't bring up the prom. That way, you are not completely avoiding her, which you really shouldn't do, and you're not bugging her, which is also not a good idea.

I don't know whether or not she wants to go with you or not, but hope for the best. I don't see why she wouldn't want to go with you, and even if she does say no, I'm sure that you guys are going to still be good friends.

After awhile, ask her again, but don't immediately bring it up, but be creative about it. If she says yes, then great, but if she says no, or if she still hasn't made up her mind about it, respect it, and just either accept it, or be patient about it. Good luck, and I'm sure everything is going to go fine.