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ZzKingz
February 9th, 2011, 08:53 PM
There's this one girl from my middle school/current high school that I've become great friends with over facebook.
I don't know what it is, but I can't talk to her in person. I guess it may be intimidation of her rejecting social interaction (like that "okay?..." look that some people give that we all hate). Help? I could be great friends with her and it's really stupid how I communicate exclusively through texting.

Quahog
February 9th, 2011, 09:39 PM
Just talk to her. If she rejects you, then that's that. At least you can say you made the effort to talk to her.

If your facebook friends with her, I see no reason why you couldn't be able to be friends in real life. Just give it a shot. I'm sure you and her will be really good friends. At least give it a shot. Be brave. You don't have anything to lose. Just talk to her about a tv show, or a movie, or talk to her about a class you're having trouble in. Good luck.

Lord C
February 10th, 2011, 04:20 PM
I agree with Jesse.

You're both interested enough to talk to each other over the internet so it will be just as easy to talk to her in person. If you're nervous about her friends being around her then just go up to her when she's alone :) She obviously doesn't find you boring otherwise she wouldn't talk to you on Facebook!

Good luck bud

Contra
February 13th, 2011, 06:09 PM
I think you should talk to her about that on Facebook, like asking her: "Hey, how come don't we get along in real life?" or something like that, in my opinion it's the best way to do it.

Beats
February 13th, 2011, 06:18 PM
Just talk to her, and if you don't like the reaction she has, ask her why she doesn't talk to you in person, I have a friend named Angel and we are like besties but I skyped him for the first time the other day, and it was really awkward, you just have to get rid of that awkward bump.