jackislax
February 9th, 2011, 03:19 PM
Sup everyone i found this site on google i hope someone can help me.. sorry the post is so long. Anyway i've liked this girl for a few weeks now and I told her because she asked me if i liked her and i said yeah a little bit, and after that she said that she "doesn't like anyone right now". So it was sort of awkward for a little bit after but i kept things going and we kept talking and i stayed exactly how i was, no differences.
This was last sunday that i told her that. The week went by and we still talked pretty much just as frequently but what was different is she came up to me a lot more frequently at school, and she sort of d idn't talk as much on facebook. Also one of her friends asked me if i liked her and i said yeah. So i dont know whats going on at this point. Friday night when we talked things were pretty awkward and neither of us had anything to say, so i just left her alone for the rest of the night and all of saturday, and i finally texted her sunday and we got talking and i told her it was my birthday tomorrow, so she said she made me a birthday card which is cute and all and again i called her cute and as usual she ignored the compliment (she used to deny it but now she just ignores compliments) and told her i wouldnt be at school tomorrow because i was going for my permit test, and she said shed give to me tuesday, and then we stopped talking because she does go to bed pretty early (before 10:30) and it was like 10:15 which is late for her. Basically a lowdown of this girl is i pretty much started talking to her on facebook and we hung out once with other people and again during midterms we hung out in between tests (about an hour and a half) just the two of us (This was actually in the school we didn't leave), but all in all we really havent hung out that much. And on top of that last week one of her friends as i already mentioned asked me if i like her and i said yeah and then this other girl shes friends with asked me "if i like anyone" and then another girl shes friends with told me to switch into her art class because the girl i like is in there. its so mixed.
I dont know what i should do at this point. I really really like this girl from what i know about her and the time we spent in person, but its a delicate situation because she said she didnt like anyone when i told her i liked her (she didnt reject me or call me a "friend" which was good) and 3. my answer to her was vague, i said a little bit, and my answer to her friend was vague too (i said sort of, yeah). so right now im really just contemplating what the next step here is. i really would like to tell her that i like her in person if we can hang out at some point but i dont want to lose her, and i especially dont want her to lose any thought that i like her. but it got even more complicated today because apparently now theres this other guy that likes her and wants to hang out with her friday and apparently from what i heard from her friends she wants to also and i was going to ask her to hang out friday today so now i dont know what to do. should i just come out and tell her that i like her today and that i wanna hang out friday? i really dont know if that would be a good idea now that this other guy is in the picture. maybe i could try to start the convo with something like why are all your friends asking me stuff like that? would that be ok or would she feel like im getting confrontational?
sorry for the long post but thank you
This was last sunday that i told her that. The week went by and we still talked pretty much just as frequently but what was different is she came up to me a lot more frequently at school, and she sort of d idn't talk as much on facebook. Also one of her friends asked me if i liked her and i said yeah. So i dont know whats going on at this point. Friday night when we talked things were pretty awkward and neither of us had anything to say, so i just left her alone for the rest of the night and all of saturday, and i finally texted her sunday and we got talking and i told her it was my birthday tomorrow, so she said she made me a birthday card which is cute and all and again i called her cute and as usual she ignored the compliment (she used to deny it but now she just ignores compliments) and told her i wouldnt be at school tomorrow because i was going for my permit test, and she said shed give to me tuesday, and then we stopped talking because she does go to bed pretty early (before 10:30) and it was like 10:15 which is late for her. Basically a lowdown of this girl is i pretty much started talking to her on facebook and we hung out once with other people and again during midterms we hung out in between tests (about an hour and a half) just the two of us (This was actually in the school we didn't leave), but all in all we really havent hung out that much. And on top of that last week one of her friends as i already mentioned asked me if i like her and i said yeah and then this other girl shes friends with asked me "if i like anyone" and then another girl shes friends with told me to switch into her art class because the girl i like is in there. its so mixed.
I dont know what i should do at this point. I really really like this girl from what i know about her and the time we spent in person, but its a delicate situation because she said she didnt like anyone when i told her i liked her (she didnt reject me or call me a "friend" which was good) and 3. my answer to her was vague, i said a little bit, and my answer to her friend was vague too (i said sort of, yeah). so right now im really just contemplating what the next step here is. i really would like to tell her that i like her in person if we can hang out at some point but i dont want to lose her, and i especially dont want her to lose any thought that i like her. but it got even more complicated today because apparently now theres this other guy that likes her and wants to hang out with her friday and apparently from what i heard from her friends she wants to also and i was going to ask her to hang out friday today so now i dont know what to do. should i just come out and tell her that i like her today and that i wanna hang out friday? i really dont know if that would be a good idea now that this other guy is in the picture. maybe i could try to start the convo with something like why are all your friends asking me stuff like that? would that be ok or would she feel like im getting confrontational?
sorry for the long post but thank you