I have trouble reaching climax?

[JuJu92]

I’ve had issues reaching climax since the day I started masturbating. Usually it takes me about a full hour to orgasm, at times I will lose the stream and have to start all over till I feel the urge too need to release again. My physician says I’m healthy and my sperm gametes are mature, not sure where the problem lies. This is also an issue during sex, because my partners always finish ahead of me and I take a long time to climax. There have been times that I’ve taken so long I’ll resort to faking my way out by pretending to orgasm inside the condom to be done with sex. Any suggestions? :what:

[Kaius]

Teen Sexuality :arrow2: P101

[sdude]

How often are you trying?? Does it help to wait a few days between having sex?? Maybe try some of those lubes with heat on tv or somethin...pretty rare man, a guy faking orgasm...

[JuJu92]

How often are you trying?? Does it help to wait a few days between having sex?? Maybe try some of those lubes with heat on tv or somethin...pretty rare man, a guy faking orgasm...

Well I've tested it, some times I go days without sex; have sex and it takes forever to climax. I get sore so I either stop or fake it depending who I'm doing I suppose, some people are understanding others aren't. As for lubes I always use lube, I'll have to try without the lube. Thanks for the suggestion though. Any other suggestions from anyone?

[sdude]

Just curious, has someone tried oral on you?? That usually gets me off pretty fast!!

[JuJu92]

Just curious, has someone tried oral on you?? That usually gets me off pretty fast!!

Yeah but most of the girls dk what they're doing tbh, it's rare I'll find one that knows how to mouth my junk and actually get me to climax off of both oral and hand stimulation at the same time :P

[LTrinity]

Don't take this the wrong way, but maybe you're not interested in girls.

[PJay]

Well dunno if it helps but it seems I can't get off when i'm 'top' (like it, but obviously not enough), no problems the other way round though. Some straight guys like anal play so maybe something to think about.

[canyon]

Your penis probably isn't as sensitive, which is why it takes longer for you to have an orgasm. What I'd do is try to get your partner to fool around a bit before actually starting to have sex. That way you'll already be hard and stimulated and it might not take as long.

[smitty35]

mabye this might be a medical thing, you might want to get checked out by your doc. Just a suggestion, and also I have never had this issue happen to me.

[JuJu92]

Don't take this the wrong way, but maybe you're not interested in girls.

I'm in interested in both genders and this is an issue with both genders, hence it also happens during masturbation.

[JuJu92]

Your penis probably isn't as sensitive, which is why it takes longer for you to have an orgasm. What I'd do is try to get your partner to fool around a bit before actually starting to have sex. That way you'll already be hard and stimulated and it might not take as long.

This is the best advice I've read so far, thanks for the input :yes:

[ryp998]

i know some people that are the same way. i would def try fooling around for a little while before actually having sex like was said before that should def help

[Lord C]

I'd guess that the advice from Capt.94 is probably right. Also, if you have problems reaching the climax and getting turned on, maybe trying something new might help.

[Severus Snape]

Is it an arousal problem?

[dmeek7]

This sounds like a gift to me!!!! a girl can have multiple orgasims. You're like her own little sex toy she can use to get off more than once every time you have sex, plus you can go forever!!! I would kill to have your gift man

[JuJu92]

Is it an arousal problem?

No I can maintain an erection for a long time but won't climax

This sounds like a gift to me!!!! a girl can have multiple orgasims. You're like her own little sex toy she can use to get off more than once every time you have sex, plus you can go forever!!! I would kill to have your gift man

Well it's good for them, bad for me...you know what happens when your aroused to long...you get sore/blue balls same thing different names.

[canyon]

This is the best advice I've read so far, thanks for the input :yes:

It's no problem, glad I could help :D

[Brandon K]

four play gets me going

[JuJu92]

four play gets me going

I'll need to try more of that then.

Anyways thanks to all the posters that replied with suggestions ;)

[sieg]

i sometimes have the same problem, for me i lose concentration quickly, try focusing on what your doing, like really focusing on what turns you on the most.

[Jarred]

When masturbating use lube and try only rubbing the head of the penis where most of the nerves are.