dmeek7
February 7th, 2011, 10:22 PM
Ok guys. My absolute best friend and the one i'd take a bullet for..absolutely in love with her, she's always been prude and she never really even liked being kissed. She's 15 now, and she's starting to get those feelings for guys where she actually thinks sexual thoughts, and she's got this new boyfriend. This guy has been to juvenile facilities like nine times and does drugs and stuff and she likes him b/c she said that he stopped just for her, which makes her feel good. Anyways, she has done her first sexual experiences with him and they've been together and they've only known each other for 2 weeks. She got fingered, she gave him a hand job, and she let him play with her breasts.
I'm not the only one of her friends that thinks she's moving too fast but no one else is saying anything to her.. what I need are some ideas on how to convince her to slow down b/c I'm afraid she will regret something really soon. I'm afraid that he's going to use the excuse that if she doesn't do what he wants to do to her then he will start using drugs again, which i mentioned earlier, is the main reason she likes him. B.c he stopped using for her.
Anyways, she's the kind of girl who doesn't like it when people tell her what to do. She's not good with orders. She barely accepts when her own parents and teachers tell her to do stuff but with her peers, she won't accept it. She will get pissed off right away when you try to tell her what to do and what not to do. she also doesn't like to take advice. She figures she can make her own mistakes and learn from them even though she makes them over and over again.... So please. Does anyone have any ideas they can give me to convince her to slow down and don't do something stupid like have sex with a guy that she met two weeks ago (or however long they will know each other when they do have sex) b/c i'm afraid that it will be soon if they have enough privacy.
Now i don't feel this way b/c i love her more than my own life, but because she really is my best friend and i don't ever want her to be hurt. I hate it when she's hurt. When she tells me she's crying for whatever reason, i get all mad and punch walls and stuff b/c i hate it when she's sad. So this guy, if he makes her regret what she's done, I will have to hurt him and i'm generally not a fighter. I just want to convince her to take it slow so she doesnt get AS hurt when she does get hurt, b/c i know there is nothing to do to prevent her from getting hurt because everyone gets hurt and it's unpreventable.
I'm not the only one of her friends that thinks she's moving too fast but no one else is saying anything to her.. what I need are some ideas on how to convince her to slow down b/c I'm afraid she will regret something really soon. I'm afraid that he's going to use the excuse that if she doesn't do what he wants to do to her then he will start using drugs again, which i mentioned earlier, is the main reason she likes him. B.c he stopped using for her.
Anyways, she's the kind of girl who doesn't like it when people tell her what to do. She's not good with orders. She barely accepts when her own parents and teachers tell her to do stuff but with her peers, she won't accept it. She will get pissed off right away when you try to tell her what to do and what not to do. she also doesn't like to take advice. She figures she can make her own mistakes and learn from them even though she makes them over and over again.... So please. Does anyone have any ideas they can give me to convince her to slow down and don't do something stupid like have sex with a guy that she met two weeks ago (or however long they will know each other when they do have sex) b/c i'm afraid that it will be soon if they have enough privacy.
Now i don't feel this way b/c i love her more than my own life, but because she really is my best friend and i don't ever want her to be hurt. I hate it when she's hurt. When she tells me she's crying for whatever reason, i get all mad and punch walls and stuff b/c i hate it when she's sad. So this guy, if he makes her regret what she's done, I will have to hurt him and i'm generally not a fighter. I just want to convince her to take it slow so she doesnt get AS hurt when she does get hurt, b/c i know there is nothing to do to prevent her from getting hurt because everyone gets hurt and it's unpreventable.