View Full Version : What Am I Supposed To Do?
Bkylblk
February 7th, 2011, 02:39 AM
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Fushigi
February 7th, 2011, 02:41 AM
i think u should tell them what ur feeling .... as uve said they will accept u.. thats a good thing. goodluck :D
Quahog
February 7th, 2011, 02:51 AM
If they are your friends, then they would accept your sexuality. If they don't, they were never friends from the beginning.
canyon
February 7th, 2011, 03:52 PM
Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem. I have kissed/made out with everyone of my guy friends and I have hooked up with 2 of them. The thing is another one of my friends is proposing we fool around but I keep turning him down because I don't want my friends to know that I'm Bi/Gay. I have no idea what to do because although my friends would accept me they have been making a lot of gay jokes that are slowly but surely starting to upset me. Someone please HELP!!!:what::what::what:
Do your other friends that you hooked up with know that you're gay? Because if not, telling them would be a hard way for them to find out..
Anyways.. If you've already hooked up with every one of your guy friends, what's the difference with this boy? You say:
The thing is another one of my friends is proposing we fool around but I keep turning him down because I don't want my friends to know that I'm Bi/Gay.
But before you said:
I have kissed/made out with everyone of my guy friends and I have hooked up with 2 of them.
If you've already done so much with your other friends, why are you afraid of what they'll think now? :what:
KnifeParty
February 7th, 2011, 06:01 PM
Snap out of it, man. Gay isn't the way to go. Straight is what we were put on this earth for. And if one of my friends were gay (cause none of my friends in my friend group are, as far as I know) we would probably kick them out! Its just not right.
Bkylblk
February 7th, 2011, 07:00 PM
Do your other friends that you hooked up with know that you're gay? Because if not, telling them would be a hard way for them to find out..
Anyways.. If you've already hooked up with every one of your guy friends, what's the difference with this boy? You say:
The thing is another one of my friends is proposing we fool around but I keep turning him down because I don't want my friends to know that I'm Bi/Gay.
But before you said:
I have kissed/made out with everyone of my guy friends and I have hooked up with 2 of them.
If you've already done so much with your other friends, why are you afraid of what they'll think now? :what:
It's very complicated. The kissing was just accepted because its not a big deal and the first time I hooked up with a guy we were both in committed relationships and then our girlfriends turned on us. He is still in a relationship and his girlfriend hates me. The second hook up my friend came on to me. I've attempted and half way decent succeed in convincing them I'm straight. If I hook up with my friend then theres no chance of hiding who I really am.
Bkylblk
February 7th, 2011, 07:00 PM
Fradd, you really need to work on who you are as a person. Good luck maintaing friends.
Hawker, thank you
sieg
February 7th, 2011, 08:32 PM
Snap out of it, man. Gay isn't the way to go. Straight is what we were put on this earth for. And if one of my friends were gay (cause none of my friends in my friend group are, as far as I know) we would probably kick them out! Its just not right. well thats quite rude, considering most of us have no say in who we are. on to the op dude if you have done that kinda stuff with your friends before i dont think they would have much a problem with you being gay.
sdude
February 7th, 2011, 10:07 PM
Fradd, you really need to wake up, people are who they are and you don't have a clue about what goes on inside loving a person if that is the way you think...take it slowly man, remember, one loving relationship can make you a really happy person...gay or straight! Oh, and love you
sdude
February 7th, 2011, 10:07 PM
That was supposed to say "love yourself first!"
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