Help deciding

[cbmountaindew]

This summer I realized that I am bisexual. So I started to like men and girls but recently some thoughts crept inside of my head that made me wonder if I am gay. I do not find anything wrong with being gay but I have always had that perfect family in my head for example having 2 kids and a nice wife. I do not know though because I experimented with some of my friends (guys) and I liked it and I do not really like any girls in my school but I find some of the guys attractive. Like my friend, the first day of school he looked so hot and he knows that I am bi and this one preppy kid I think looks cute. So I am really confused and plus the girls I like are usually flat chested and have short hair (look like guys). So I am really confused. I do not know what to do. Like one day I thought I was gay because I was at my friends house and we were experimenting and we kissed and I really liked it. So I do not know why I wrote this really long post when I just need advice because I am really confused. :confused:

[Quahog]

Many bi-sexual people love one sex more than the other. So it's nothing to be confused about. If you like both sexes you are bi-sexual. Unless you don't like the other sex at all, then you are gay.

[Fushigi]

Many bi-sexual people love one sex more than the other. So it's nothing to be confused about. If you like both sexes you are bi-sexual. Unless you don't like the other sex at all, then you are gay.


yea agree with him.... just be who you are :D coz ur amazing just the way u are :D hehehe

[sdude]

Not sure how old you are, but worrying about this now is probably too soon. Attraction to guys or girls is part of it, but who you emotionally connect with will probably determine where you end up...and hopefully that person will love you back in a way that you won't be confused or care whether you are gay or straight...

[Skeptical Bear]

You choose your path. I'm in the same position as you are. I'm Bi, but I lean little bit to the guys at times. I want a family as well, but not for the normality of it. I love kids. I could always adopt but I don't know. I just want kids.

[Sebastian Michaelis]

Many bi-sexual people love one sex more than the other. So it's nothing to be confused about. If you like both sexes you are bi-sexual. Unless you don't like the other sex at all, then you are gay.
I agree 100%
coz ur amazing just the way u are
Never quote that coke sniffing faggot Bruno Mars again!

[maxii]

Im bi but I like boyz more than girlz

[canyon]

This summer I realized that I am bisexual. So I started to like men and girls but recently some thoughts crept inside of my head that made me wonder if I am gay. I do not find anything wrong with being gay but I have always had that perfect family in my head for example having 2 kids and a nice wife. I do not know though because I experimented with some of my friends (guys) and I liked it and I do not really like any girls in my school but I find some of the guys attractive. Like my friend, the first day of school he looked so hot and he knows that I am bi and this one preppy kid I think looks cute. So I am really confused and plus the girls I like are usually flat chested and have short hair (look like guys). So I am really confused. I do not know what to do. Like one day I thought I was gay because I was at my friends house and we were experimenting and we kissed and I really liked it. So I do not know why I wrote this really long post when I just need advice because I am really confused. :confused:

It's really up to you, we can't choose what you should be for you. It's your life and it's entirely up to you as to what your orientation is. Whatever you are, just go with it.

I've been going through a similar situation to yours, too. I've been thinking alot about what my orientation is, and for now I'm keeping it as Straight/Curious. I don't know if that'll change to Bisexual or if it'll go back to Straight, but I'm just gonna go with it. It's my life and I'll do what I want.

No matter what you are, don't do anything you don't want to do just because you feel pressured into being 'Straight' or 'Gay'. Everyone's normal is different. Normal for someone might be completely weird for another, so just worry about your own personal definition.


Never quote that coke sniffing faggot Bruno Mars again!

Just saying, but I don't think it's right to be calling someone a faggot when you're trying to give advice to someone who think's he's Bisexual..

[Infidelitas]

things will work out for you in the end, and once they do, you will be much happier :)