Really Confused

[DarkNick]

So I've something that really bothers me these days...
I've been in love with many girls before but one month ago I realised that I've fell in love with a boy also,plus I can get erections from women but not as easy as with men...I can't imagine kissing a guy,or have a relashionship with a guy (except the one who I'm talking about above)but I can imagine all these with a girl.I've never had a real relashionship so it's hard to say...
So am I bi or what?
I can't explain it and I'm rly confused about it :( :confused:

Thanks

[Sebastian Michaelis]

your who you are and i think you are the only person who can say what you are. follow your heart and you will end up where you're meant to be. you will find the right person.

[canyon]

So I've something that really bothers me these days...
I've been in love with many girls before but one month ago I realised that I've fell in love with a boy also,plus I can get erections from women but not as easy as with men...I can't imagine kissing a guy,or have a relashionship with a guy (except the one who I'm talking about above)but I can imagine all these with a girl.I've never had a real relashionship so it's hard to say...
So am I bi or what?
I can't explain it and I'm rly confused about it :( :confused:

Thanks

You're just going through puberty. This happens to lots of boys. You might be bisexual, but then again you might not be. What I say is to just go with the flow. If you turn out to be bisexual, so what? It's what you like, and that's all that matters.

[Robbie]

yeah this is normal during puberty, you can't really say what you are just yet, maybe expirament..?

[nick]

Some of us dont fit into categories that easily, so dont worry too much about attaching pointless labels to yourself. It does sound as if you could be bi, but I think of sexuality as more of a sliding scale, not just three options (straight/bi/gay), just be yourself and go with the flow.

[Starlight Blaze]

haha i had this problem, turned out to be a split personality/alter ego
don't worry just go along with it
maybe its just this one guy, whi knows? crazier things have happened
if you're not scared to, ask him out!
or not, it's your choice

[DarkNick]

haha i had this problem, turned out to be a split personality/alter ego
don't worry just go along with it
maybe its just this one guy, whi knows? crazier things have happened
if you're not scared to, ask him out!
or not, it's your choice
Well I told him how I feel and all these but as a response I got a destroyed friendship,not just from that but it was something that made him very stubborn about our friendship...As a result it turned out that this friendship and this love became a soul trauma for me... :(

The other thing that I wanted to say is that with women I can get much more harder an erection because I get nervous but when it comes to the thinking yes I can say wooah that girl is hot...
I'm terribly frustated !!!:(

P.S: Thanks everyone for your answers. :D

[sdude]

Bummer the guy was a butthead about things, but unfortunately that's how it goes...
sometimes our "attraction" to someone, doesn't mean that person is worth the trouble we go through..don't worry, things will be better with someone, girl or guy, that can see you are worth it!

[DarkNick]

Bummer the guy was a butthead about things, but unfortunately that's how it goes...
sometimes our "attraction" to someone, doesn't mean that person is worth the trouble we go through..don't worry, things will be better with someone, girl or guy, that can see you are worth it!

Well I don't understand how exactly that went here...
When I told him that he was my best friend,he respond very cold.He said I can't give you a promise or something like that.He was helping me yes and he was a good friend but then (before I told him about my secret love for him)he started acting differently.He made me completely unsecure and eventhought I thought that he liked me too then ... BOOM! :(

Anyway It's a bit offtopic but I couldn't hold them inside me anymore..
:(

[tyler007]

Well sorry it did not work out for you, but if you give it some time, hopefully he well still be you friend. Remember it kind of is like dropping a bomb on someone, you have been thinking about it for a while now, and he has not. I hope that it works out

[DarkNick]

Well sorry it did not work out for you, but if you give it some time, hopefully he well still be you friend. Remember it kind of is like dropping a bomb on someone, you have been thinking about it for a while now, and he has not. I hope that it works out

Thanks for your comment Tyler :)
I wish you were right but unfortunatelly things turned out in a different way :/

[Colin2011]

It's normal for the development and understanding of our sexual orientation to take some time, and it's also normal for our orientation to have subtle or even big shifts through life.But in the meantime, especially when it comes to what's going on in your own head and your own heart? Trust it and accept it.

PM if anyone want to chat. I'm new to this site so it would be good to hear from people. I'm Bi from England