Being Ignored.

[jimmenycricket]

So this girl and I were really good friends over the summer and we had a little something going. However, I then told her I had feelings for her, and she seemed to be a bit taken aback, but we still talked. Gradually, over the next couple weeks though, we started talking less and less until we pretty much stopped talking. She doesn't go to my school, and lives kinda far away, so it wasn't like I had to see her everyday either.

I started texting and messaging her on Facebook again, but she wasn't responding, and I clearly saw her responding to other people, so it's not like she was super busy or anything. I confronted her about it, asking her if I alienated her in some way, and she said that she was just really busy, which was obviously bullshit, but I didn't call her out on that. I said sorry, and I basically made myself look like an ass.

We totally cut off communication after this, and I figured that I'd try to get over her. Keep in mind that this was all about 4 or 5 months ago. However, I just couldn't shake her, so I'd occasionally text her or message her and she wouldn't respond, not because she's busy, obviously. Even now, 4 or 5 months later, I still have feelings for her, and at the very least want to have a healthy friendship with her and clear the air.

How do I get through to her and get her to quit ignoring me? I just want to know what's up at the very least.

[The Madness.]

I guess that since you told her your feelings she didn't know how to handle the situation. Since she's trying to ignore you, try to just give her space. She obviously doesn't know how to react at all, so she's trying to run away from it. Which is immature. Just wait a while longer without any contact and then randomly start talking to her. OR if you want a more direct approach, tell her you understand that she doesn't have feelings for you, but you'd like to remain friends. Nothing more than that.