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bobbyb330
February 6th, 2011, 02:25 PM
I went through a "gay stage" where i was really curius about guys. I looked at gay porn and thought about what guys looked. I would especially think about them a lot when i was doing you know what. Lately, ive been feeling really guilty about it especially since some of the guys that i was thinking about were actually younger than me by about two years. This lasted for about a year and a half. I'm sure that im straight because im into girls physically and mentally but i am very creeped out that i even was thinking about guys who were younger than me. Has this happened to anyone else?

canyon
February 6th, 2011, 02:27 PM
I went through a "gay stage" where i was really curius about guys. I looked at gay porn and thought about what guys looked. I would especially think about them a lot when i was doing you know what. Lately, ive been feeling really guilty about it especially since some of the guys that i was thinking about were actually younger than me by about two years. This lasted for about a year and a half. I'm sure that im straight because im into girls physically and mentally but i am very creeped out that i even was thinking about guys who were younger than me. Has this happened to anyone else?

It's been happening to me a bit lately too. I know I'm straight and I like girls and all that stuff, but I did like guys too. I fantasize about them sometimes and stuff like that, but I do the same thing with girls too.
I don't think that there's a set definition of 'normal'. Rather, it's what you like. If you like guys, then that's normal for you. We all have our preferences. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

skinny_white_boy
February 6th, 2011, 02:29 PM
Of course it's normal! I think everyone goes through this cycle one point in their life. I have the same feelings as you and I'm currently in it too. It's just hormones raging looking for something, anything that you'd want to do

nick
February 6th, 2011, 03:39 PM
Its very normal while your hormones are going wild, no need to feel guilty about it.

greekboy
February 6th, 2011, 05:21 PM
it's completely normal to think about other guys when you are early on in puberty. It is part of a guys assessment of himself physically and emotionally but can cause confusion because of the fluctuation of puberty hormones surging through your body. You say that you have moved on from this so your hormones have probably started to settle down now. your fine.

Quahog
February 6th, 2011, 05:24 PM
Yes, at that time, you probably were curious about your sexuality, and your hormones were getting into the way of it.

Skeptical Bear
February 6th, 2011, 05:28 PM
Yea. It isn't weird. I'm still into younger people. It bothers me a lot.

Bkylblk
April 12th, 2011, 09:41 PM
I went through a "gay stage" where i was really curius about guys. I looked at gay porn and thought about what guys looked. I would especially think about them a lot when i was doing you know what. Lately, ive been feeling really guilty about it especially since some of the guys that i was thinking about were actually younger than me by about two years. This lasted for about a year and a half. I'm sure that im straight because im into girls physically and mentally but i am very creeped out that i even was thinking about guys who were younger than me. Has this happened to anyone else?

Yeah I've been there

grstl
April 13th, 2011, 10:03 AM
I suppose we all think about it.....just be careful about acting on it. Interest in younger guys brings up a whole set of possible problems later on. First there is legal stuff. Then, I suppose that the older you get it will be harder to find younger guys who are interested..I know I'm not interested in fat, bald or hairy....just being really honest...not rying to be rude. Enjoy where you are at now and don't stress too much.

Spook
April 13th, 2011, 10:05 AM
It's completely normal. Don't be creeped out, it's a perfectly normal part of puberty, and alot of boys and girls go through that stage.

Craig1995
April 13th, 2011, 10:50 AM
Two years isn't an age gap I would be creeped out by. :)

smitty35
April 13th, 2011, 05:31 PM
Who cares if they are/were 2 yrs younger than you. Tons of guys, when they jack off, think about other guys. I have thought about a guy who was 2 years younger than me. So what? Who cares he was and still is hot.