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HeroesAndCons
February 5th, 2011, 10:37 PM
Ok like im really curious and i hope this doesn't offend anyone in any way
Recently i have heard about homophobic gays
and i was wondering how can that be?
Hope i didnt offend anyone just am curious
Voodoo
February 5th, 2011, 10:45 PM
Uh, that's not possible..
Mikey_bishop
February 5th, 2011, 10:53 PM
I think, just by the nature of "homophobic" you cant be both homophobic and gay. That would be like a blind man who can see!
Vonn
February 5th, 2011, 10:54 PM
Closeted gays acting like assholes so everyone thinks they're straight.
HeroesAndCons
February 5th, 2011, 11:05 PM
Closeted gays acting like assholes so everyone thinks they're straight.
I see thank you for the answer
Quahog
February 5th, 2011, 11:44 PM
Anything is possible. I know many people who are homophobic, but they are gay. I don't understand it either.
sieg
February 6th, 2011, 01:26 AM
self resentment, ever heard of a black man being racist against black people?
Ali_Cat
February 6th, 2011, 02:00 AM
I`m sure fear could also play a big factor into that one.
Ex: A boy is raised in a very religious family, and is taught from an early age that homosexuals are 'bad' and that you`ll go to hell if you`re a homosexual. Boy remains homophobic as he gets older. Boy, against his will, grows up to find his sexuality as a homosexual. Obviously, fear, anger, resentment, and other negative emotions course through him since he has become something he was raised to resent.
Voila!
canyon
February 6th, 2011, 03:16 PM
Ok like im really curious and i hope this doesn't offend anyone in any way
Recently i have heard about homophobic gays
and i was wondering how can that be?
Hope i didnt offend anyone just am curious
I think it's because they're afraid of themselves. They don't want to believe they're gay, so they put on an act to make themselves feel better about the whole situation. Rather than dealing with the fact that they're gay, they act as if being gay is wrong to hopefully turn straight.
Skeptical Bear
February 6th, 2011, 03:27 PM
I'm no asshole and no one knows or has the suspicion that I'm Bi. Those type of people just over do it to hide them selves.
Sosaku
February 6th, 2011, 05:10 PM
I`m sure fear could also play a big factor into that one.
Ex: A boy is raised in a very religious family, and is taught from an early age that homosexuals are 'bad' and that you`ll go to hell if you`re a homosexual. Boy remains homophobic as he gets older. Boy, against his will, grows up to find his sexuality as a homosexual. Obviously, fear, anger, resentment, and other negative emotions course through him since he has become something he was raised to resent.
Voila!
stole what i had to say, but the Voila made me repost it, even the simplest french makes me happy lol
A Homophobic Gay:
Raised in very religious home, taught homosexuality is bad, discovers his true feelings, and hates himself, and others. Quite common, and some even hate homosexuals to a point where they kill them to "turn" themselves straight...quite scary imo
greekboy
February 6th, 2011, 05:16 PM
Closeted gays acting like assholes so everyone thinks they're straight.
This is common, I know people who do this
I`m sure fear could also play a big factor into that one.
Ex: A boy is raised in a very religious family, and is taught from an early age that homosexuals are 'bad' and that you`ll go to hell if you`re a homosexual. Boy remains homophobic as he gets older. Boy, against his will, grows up to find his sexuality as a homosexual. Obviously, fear, anger, resentment, and other negative emotions course through him since he has become something he was raised to resent.
Voila!
A real possibility, but sad because these guys can never be happy.
I think it's because they're afraid of themselves. They don't want to believe they're gay, so they put on an act to make themselves feel better about the whole situation. Rather than dealing with the fact that they're gay, they act as if being gay is wrong to hopefully turn straight.
Also a real possibility but could have a happy ending when they finally realise what they are and then accept if for what it is, and be happy with themselves.
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