should you get off with the new boy your seeing infront of the ex....................

[Kitty]

OKay so i kinda got a thing going on with this guy who's so fit and everything. I doubt it will turn into anything serious as...well it just won't. But the last guy i was serious with we argued a lot and we ended things a couple of weeks ago (maybs a month).

But anyway im going to a party tonight and both of them will be there, do you think i should be what im normally like with this new guy or kinda of tone it down and not get with him infront of the other guy because i don't want him to get hurt of pissed off with me.

BUT THEN..the new guy might think im not interested or that i still have feelings for the old one <3


Small little problem that im over thinking i know <3 but opinion will be useful <3 xxx

[Rutherford The Brave]

Be who you are, but dont over do it and hang all over the new kid.

[Charleigh]

Do what you want but dont let him see your doing it to wind him up.

[nick]

Your ex cant expect you to stay single forever so at some point he will have to cope with the idea of seeing you with somebody else. However, and I guess what your worried about, he might feel its a bit soon and that could upset him. So I guess you need to use your own judgement, maybe just be natural but dont snog the new guy's face off or anything.

[Kitty]

awhhh thanks guy.

MY PLAN: go with the flow of the night :) <3

[georgiamay]

MY PLAN: go with the flow of the night :) <3

FILL ME IN TOMORROW. :P

anyways, I wouldn't let the fact that your ex will be there get in the way of how you behave. You're young, live on the wild side :') If you want to get off with this new guy, go for it, if you're not with the old guy anymore, he doesn't have a right to have a problem with it tbh.

[Aves]

anyways, I wouldn't let the fact that your ex will be there get in the way of how you behave. You're young, live on the wild side :') If you want to get off with this new guy, go for it, if you're not with the old guy anymore, he doesn't have a right to have a problem with it tbh.

Sorry, but this pisses me off Georgia.

If he broke up with her, then it's his loss. But if he's like me, who was the one who got dumped, it's a different story. It used to kill me to imagine my ex's with anyone else after they broke up with me. Seeing just made it worse. He does have a right to have a problem with it, if that's the case. People have feelings, and feelings don't die off easily. Showing off a new guy in front of him is a low move in my opinion, and it's just not right. They may not show they have a problem with it, but they still might.

[georgiamay]

Sorry, but this pisses me off Georgia.

If he broke up with her, then it's his loss. But if he's like me, who was the one who got dumped, it's a different story. It used to kill me to imagine my ex's with anyone else after they broke up with me. Seeing just made it worse. He does have a right to have a problem with it, if that's the case. People have feelings, and feelings don't die off easily. Showing off a new guy in front of him is a low move in my opinion, and it's just not right. They may not show they have a problem with it, but they still might.

I never said she should show off the new guy, that's a little different. I meant if she wants to get with the new guy, that's her decision. I never said she should go out of her way to make the old guy jealous. I also think that's a bit mean.

[Rutherford The Brave]

I never said she should show off the new guy, that's a little different. I meant if she wants to get with the new guy, that's her decision. I never said she should go out of her way to make the old guy jealous. I also think that's a bit mean.

I understand what you mean, your just trying to say that she shouldnt feel like she can't have fun with this new kid, and totally be upset because she doesnt want to make him upset, she should have fun but not over do it and do it on purpose.