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LingeringLove
February 5th, 2011, 04:20 AM
Okay, so I turn 14 in less then 2 weeks, and I still haven't gotten my period. Like, I would understand if I DIDN'T Have boobs or armpit or pubic hair, but like seriously I have EVERYTHING else, but it. Don't get me wrong, I don't really want it becaus when my mum was younger she would get REALLY bad cramps, and sondoes my sister, but for the pure fact that ALL of my friends have it, and they'll talk about it, and they'll be like, 'why are you here, you don't even have it', and they say it at school too :( and I hate and I've told them to stop, but they won't. The Ono comeback I have is saying that I don't have to bleed for a week every Month ;)
But seriously, do you think I should go see a doctor? Cuz I'm confused !
TheSleepingInsomniac
February 5th, 2011, 04:33 AM
Your friends are bitch's probably because of PMS but just try ignoring them or being sarcastic, sarcasm works best.
Mrs.KermitTheFrogx
February 5th, 2011, 05:08 AM
Well this is actually quite intresting
its probly nothing
but if you get REALLY bad cramps then you should go to the doctor
because my friend had this and there was skin or somthing to thick
and she had to have it surgery removed.
But its probly nothing -good luckk :) xxx
Skatergirl
February 5th, 2011, 05:22 AM
I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Enjoy it while you don't have it!
Ignore your friends, that's so mean that they do that to you. It's not like you can help it!
You probably will get it anytime soon now, don't worry yourself over it though.
Fact
February 5th, 2011, 05:47 AM
I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Enjoy it while you don't have it!
Ignore your friends, that's so mean that they do that to you. It's not like you can help it!
You probably will get it anytime soon now, don't worry yourself over it though.
This basically.
Just because you have "everything else" doesn't mean you should automatically have your periods too. Everyone develops in a different order, so it's not unusual or weird to not be having periods yet. There were two girls in my class at school that didn't start having periods until they were 15, and neither of them had anything wrong, they just developed in a different way to most people in my class.
Seriously, you're right to be enjoying it whilst you don't have it! You'll be annoyed for wishing it upon yourself because of stupid girls at school teasing you, when it does come. :P
Love.Hate
February 5th, 2011, 08:43 AM
Don't worry there is nothing wrongwith you, everyone develops at different times. I didn't start my period until I was 14 and a half, don't spend all your time worrying. When you do start you will wish you hadn't !
Don't listen to your friends they are just being bitchy, hope this has reassured you a little bit xx
RAWWR
February 5th, 2011, 09:42 AM
Like everyone else said, don't worry about it. My friend didn't start her period till she was 17. Just enjoy it while you can, beleive me, having them is not much fun -.-
Charleigh
February 5th, 2011, 10:56 AM
Everyone comes on at different times. I came on at 12, wheras one of my friends came on at 15.
Nothing to be worried about hun.
ackmedsgirl666
February 5th, 2011, 11:10 AM
Meh your 14 and your still developing. It's probably coming but if u don't get it by the time you are 17 go to the doctors And get checked out. I know how u feel in this situation All of my older cousins got theirs before me And I got so mad but don't worry I'm sure your period is on the way girl
brennaluvv
February 5th, 2011, 01:08 PM
Don't worry about it, my mom didn't start till she was 18! She considered herself lucky. Lol, but really it's not that big of a deal. Having your period is a hassle and it's definitely not something to brag about. I bet your friends are just jealous of you because you don't have to go through that yet and their way of making themselves feel better is to bring you down. Ignore them or get new friends if it bothers you THAT much. Real friends don't pick on each other when they are late bloomers. ^^
heykay
February 5th, 2011, 06:21 PM
I didn't get mine until I was 14 and I had everything else too, not to mention I developed fast. You're fine, it'll come, and if you're really that self conscious about it you can just tell your friends you got it. It's not that big of a deal.
Ambrosia
February 8th, 2011, 12:21 AM
Honestly, the longer your period takes to come the healthier you are (or so I was always told). I mean, if you don't start by sixteen there can be a problem. But it used to be normal for girls to start between the ages of fourteen and seventeen. The only reason girls start as easy as eight these days is because of how drastically lifestyles have changed,
LingeringLove
February 10th, 2011, 11:32 PM
I wanna say thanks guys! You helped me, but I got my period today! I didn't really want it, but it's kind of a releif because I was wondering why I didn't have it yet.
Fact
February 11th, 2011, 02:39 PM
I wanna say thanks guys! You helped me, but I got my period today! I didn't really want it, but it's kind of a releif because I was wondering why I didn't have it yet.
Welcome to the period club!
Commence monthly bitch-fits :D
Seriously though, now you can stop worrying about it and start wishing you never had one. :P
polkagurl
February 12th, 2011, 02:08 AM
i got my period when i was ten turning eleven in 2 months but anyways i remember before i got it, it was completely normal. you get real bad cramps like ones that you think you dont want to like even walk anymore, theyre terrible i know it is actually normal. and with the period... youre 13. so i would wait to go see a doctor until youre 14 turning 15 because a womens body develops differently. it really matters on how vaccines given to you when you were born and the hormones in milk and meat and such and how they react to your body. also, genetics plays a huge role. but i would not worry yet if i were you.
beachbumchick
February 12th, 2011, 09:02 PM
glad you aren't worried anymore, and im sorry that you have it now lol
LingeringLove
February 13th, 2011, 03:22 PM
I know >< Plus my sister has it ring now too, and we share a room. Guess who got hit on the head this morning? -___-
HeroesAndCons
February 13th, 2011, 05:07 PM
I wanna say thanks guys! You helped me, but I got my period today! I didn't really want it, but it's kind of a releif because I was wondering why I didn't have it yet.
welcome to the curse
XP
Charleigh
February 14th, 2011, 03:06 PM
LOL. Bless youu. Its dirtttty. I hate periods -.-
smalltowngirl9189
February 14th, 2011, 09:43 PM
I agree with Charlie Girl
It's a curse! Especially when your gaurdians don'tallow you to wear tampons!
cheergurl
February 15th, 2011, 09:28 PM
congrats lingering! ...i think. lol
Charleigh
February 16th, 2011, 03:42 PM
Uggh. Hope everything is ok with it lol. I know it ain't to nice D:
RaineBow
February 21st, 2011, 09:33 PM
Your lucky, I'd rather NOT have it. There was a five month period (no pun intended) of time when I didn't get my period at all. I wish I didn't have it.
Oh, and if your friends talk about it, just use sarcasm. Sarcasm is my best friend for all of my dumb moments, or awkward moments. :)
Or just say 'At least I won't act like an angry gorilla for a week' (referring to pms....)
I'm sure there's nothing wrong, but if it really is concerning to you, you should talk to your doctor. I new this kid, who's mom didn't get their period until they were 21.....
Woo congrats!
Now you have an exscuse for being emotional/ angry for a week :) :)
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LingeringLove
February 22nd, 2011, 01:46 AM
Lol, the night before I got it I screamed at my mum for no reason, and started crying, and I got grounded. But I got un-grounded when my mum realized it was my period's "fault"
joeyjorulz
February 25th, 2011, 05:08 AM
all i can say is i was in the same position as you then it happened.
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