kissing problem!

[Wisconsin]

so my girlfriend and i have been going out for a little more than 5 months and have kissed once. she wants me to kiss her and she has told me this. but it seems like she doesnt want me to kiss her. i want to kiss her but when ppl tell me too she yells, yes i mean yells and stomps away leaving me wondering. this has been going on for about a month and a half. and recently i found out she is embarrassed of going out with me. a girl asked her who she was going out with, she told her, and the girl said, in these words exactly, "ur going out with HIM???" so now i have been told by my gf's best friend that she is embarrassed. do i still keep trying to kiss her? or do i break it off? this is so conflicting inside me and im soooo confused!!! i still like (might even love) her and i dont really want to break it off...im willing to change but the thing is....i cant ask what to change because im not supposed to know this info. so WHAT DO I DO????:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused::help::help:

[Quahog]

I think it's time to end it. I don't think she is interested in you anymore. Why wait for the relationship to get better, when it probably won't.

Sometimes it just doesn't work out. You will find someone else.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Either try kissing or breaking it off. I think that kissing her may make her realize that u care Bout her And u are still willing to try things with her. Do what your heart says and trust he instincts. All the best

[Aves]

She really needs to grow up. If she's really embarrassed of you, then she's not ready for a relationship with you. It's honestly simple as that. I guess that's just my own thoughts.

[heykay]

I'd end it. If she's embarrassed of you, then it's not worth it. If she's causing you stress and you're not happy, break it off.

[Wisconsin]

ty all....but its really not that simple...i care too much for her to just end it like that. id like to know exactly what im doing so wrong. cause yes there are some things that i really dont need to be doing but yeah sure im not really the most popular guy in school so yea some ppl wontl like me but the thing is...ONE person freaked that she was dating me. more than 4 ppl freaked that i was dating her. i really dont care what ppl think. thats probly why ppl dont like me lol

[Weeping]

If she's embarrassed over you, and you'd need to change yourself to make it work, then it's not worth it. That's just a sign that she doesn't really like you.

But listen to your heart, and if you decide to break it, then don't do it bitchy, talk to her more about it and tell her the reasons, etc.

Hope it works out, and that this at least helped a little.

[Fact]

ty all....but its really not that simple...i care too much for her to just end it like that. id like to know exactly what im doing so wrong. cause yes there are some things that i really dont need to be doing but yeah sure im not really the most popular guy in school so yea some ppl wontl like me but the thing is...ONE person freaked that she was dating me. more than 4 ppl freaked that i was dating her. i really dont care what ppl think. thats probly why ppl dont like me lol

It's not really about what the 'other people' think. If SHE is the one that doesn't want to kiss you, then she's not worth your time or effort.
As someone said previous to me, if she's going to be that immature about your relationship, then she's not ready for it, or just genuinely isn't interested in you.

I'd say get out of it now before you feel like you have to be glued to her for life, because she's not likely to change her mind any time soon.

[Robbie]

I don't think kissing's the issue here.. I think you'd be better off without her if she's like this

[Fushigi]

i think in a relationship u should not be ashamed of ur partner because if that happens i think she is not serious about u... well basically if u love someone u are proud to say it out loud .... and i suggest u should break up with her... coz she's not worthy (just my opinion)