PLEASE...I Really Need Some Help

[pacountryboy]

I just got back from my annual vacation in Pennsylvania a few days ago and I have a question or two. First, I am 15 and my favorite cousin, Levi, in Pennsylvania, is 12. I am about 5'11" and he is like 5'6". I have blonde hair so my mustache is almost invisible, he has dark hair and has one that you can at least see. I saw his penis while I was up there (NOT GAY OR ANYTHING!) we just went skinny-dipping in his hot tub because it was cold and I saw his. He has a pretty good one with lots of pubic hair. I can't tell, though, if his is bigger than mine. When it is flaccid it is hard to tell because everyone's changes, it could go from pretty big but still flaccid to really small. I am a little insecure and always compare other guy's manliness to mine. I would just feel weird if my cousin who is three years younger being bigger than me. Also, does it seem like he has more hair just because I have lighter hair?

So on to my question, sorry about the wait. How can you really tell how big someone is when they are flaccid? I just can't figure it. I would also like to ask if he is an early-bloomer because I am not sure.

Last, sometimes I get an erection if I see another guy's package or something. I like girls and I really don't want to be gay at all. I want to go out with girls and marry a beautiful woman and everything I can do that is straight. Levi told me that he gets erections sometimes from two girls on T.V. Is it weird what happens to me and does it make me less of a man that it doesn't to him? Please help.

P.S. Levi is ashamed of growing up quickly. He said that kids make fun of him having hair on his lip and being tall. He said that he wishes he didn't have it. I just want to yell at him about how lucky he actually is. I would be grateful to be tall, have hair on my lip, and be all "situated' down there at only 12. Oh well.



-If anyone actually read all that then please help. I would like any advice you can give. I am feeling a little insecure right now about all this-

PLEASE HELP

[Unsure16]

Hey,
don't worry about it, most times the pub hairs on a blode haired boy don't seem as thick or as long, but once you fully develope it will start to show. Since he has darker hair his hair on his cock shows up a lot better.
So you say that you get erections when you see other guys cocks? I get that sometimes, too. It doesn't mean that you are gay, just that you are sexually aroused. Maybe you are just curious. Do you ever get a boner around your cousin, or want to touch another guy's "package"? It is just curiousity. Calm down, guys are always comparing themselves other guys, you can't tell how big a guys cock is when it is flaccid, just no way. Some guys look really small but when they get erect are huge. mine is really small when flaccid, but erect is about 7.5". (I'm 16)

[pacountryboy]

That is the weird part though. I have black pubes and black armpit hair. It is just my facial hair. Ya, sometimes seeing other guys packages because they look real big. I don't know, I am not sure if I want to touch them. That does make me feel better though. Thank you. Wow, 7.5 inches at 16. That's pretty good. It just feels weird to think that someone who is three years younger than you, especially your little cousin, is growing up fast and could be bigger than you. Thank you for helping with some of my questions.

[Unsure16]

That means that you haven't gotten that far in puberty to have dark colored facial hair. Mine isn't that dark on my face yet, but i have dark armpit hair and pub hairs. But i shave my cock. Well, if you really want to see how big your cousin is, just bet him that your's is bigger when erect and then get erections and compare for real. I'm glad that i could answer your questions. Thanks, i didn't think that 7.5" was big for 16, but maybe it is. What about you, big are you erect, and how old did you say you were? So do you think that you want to touch another guys cock? Sometimes i feel like i want to and then other times i think that it is gross. It must be a puberty thing.:lol:

[pacountryboy]

I have thought about that before but he is my best friend/cousin so I just don't really want to. I am pretty sure mine is bigger (like 99%), it is just my imagination. I think 7.5" is big period. When I grow up I only want like an 8" one or maybe a little bigger. Mine is 6" erect right now and I am 15. I don't really want to touch another guy's cock, it is just weird to me. I don't shave my pubes, just saying, lol. Ya, thanks again.

[0=]

Lol, no justification needed for a good skinny dip. Just under 6" is average for an adult, you're fine.

[pacountryboy]

Oh, that's cool. Thanks ^^

[RowanVer.3.0]

Hey, hey!
You're lucky you're that tall :D! Your genetics have been kind to you man, be grateful... Know this, every guy wants a big dick. Most of the time, it matters more to the guy about his penis than to the girl :P...

As for you cousin, he's probably an early bloomer... I started getting upper lip hair at 13, and I thought that was pretty young! Nearly 2 years later, other than that lip-hair, I still don't have a whole lot of facial hair! Puberty doesn't really take a set path I don't think. It's random, I think... I had lip hair waaay before this one kid in Middle School... Now, in freshmen year(grade9) he has all this hair on the side of his face and I've still got the lip hair haha...

Anyway, I doubt you'll be 8" man.. I'm 5'7.5" and 6"(15 in 12days). I think 7.5" is wishful thinking for guys around our size and age ;) Puberty is a nightmare, filled with "I wish"s.

I think your penis is a tiny bit above average for your age.

[Bobby]

Ya..8'' is pretty unlikely. 6'' is pretty good though, don't worry. Your "wanting to see and touch" other penises is just curiosity.

[pacountryboy]

Thanks Rowan ^^ All that really helps a lot. I can always have my hopes though.

You too, Diego. Although, I don't really want to touch them. I just want to see them to compare. Thanks though.

[pacountryboy]

I'll try to help with anyone else's questions also while waiting for some of my other ones to be answered.

[football]

well i 2 get erections when i see another guys penis but im straight 2...seems 2 me like he might be an early bloomer but u never know...and as for the mustache...i have blonde hair but its goin black and its annoyin lol

[pacountryboy]

That is annoying. I think that is going to happen to me but I like my blonde hair. Thanks

Can anyone else help or give me their input/opinion?

[RowanVer.3.0]

Hmm.. About the whole penis thing, look here. I basically covered a lot of that in here.. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=9572

Basically, it's being turned on by the act of sex itself. Like, almost thinking of how he could use that on a woman or something.. Not exactly like that, but somewhat.. It's more sub-concious than anything.

It's kind of like how guys have a unwritten respect for other guys with big dicks. Not because they're gay.. They just do.

[0=]

I don't think it's about sex at all, it was probably spontaneous.

[boy_lover88]

i didn't think that 7.5" was big for 16,

I would slap you silly, if I actually heard you say that. Most guys would kill to have a dick as big as that. I'd say you're over-average.

Back to the topic though, most of the people here already helped you, so all I have to say is... Good Luck! ^^