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PAfarmerkid
February 4th, 2011, 06:35 PM
I told some of my friends I was curious several weeks ago. But this week I started realising Im bisexual instead of curious. I talked about it with one of my closest friends and he told me some good info. Feel free to add to this if you want.
To say the least Im having alittle trouble accepting myself as bi, but I will eventually.
1:Just go with it, theres nothing you can do about it, accept it.
2:Quite fighting a loosing battle, you are who your are.
3:Sooner or later you will have to accept it, but the sooner the better.
Im very happy he understands and just thought he told me some good advice. Like I said above, feel free to add to this if you want.
Quahog
February 5th, 2011, 05:04 AM
Yes. You shouldn't be afraid of thinking your friends won't accept you. Because they weren't true friends to begin with, if they don't. Real friends would support/accept you.
nick
February 5th, 2011, 06:34 AM
I would just back up what your friend has said. Just stay relaxed and go with the flow, you cant change who you are, so just embrace it.
tmhfoto
February 5th, 2011, 09:55 AM
Yes. You shouldn't be afraid of thinking your friends won't accept you. Because they weren't true friends to begin with, if they don't. Real friends would support/accept you.
i totally agree with this, true friends will stick with ya bud, just remember theres always ones to talk to ;)
ackmedsgirl666
February 5th, 2011, 11:16 AM
Go with what u feel in your heart. It may be hard at first but eventually experiences this obstacle in their life.if u wanna be bi go right ahead nobody can stop u. But urself which would be a tragedy if u held back from this interesting event
greekboy
February 5th, 2011, 05:52 PM
Just to agree with what has already been said. you need to be happy with yourself. proper friends will always support you and whjat do you care about the others.
PAfarmerkid
February 5th, 2011, 08:52 PM
Thanks everyone. All my friends are being very very supportive. And I thank all of them all the time for it, they know how much I appreciate it. It has brought us closer together also in both our friendships and trust. IDK what I would do without my friends, and its great to have friends like mine.
Donkey
February 6th, 2011, 06:31 AM
Bisexual is only more choice, what's the problem? As has been said above, just accept yourself man. That said, don't come out if it will hurt your safety.
Robbie
February 6th, 2011, 07:18 AM
There's nothing wrong with being bisexual, and with supportive friends like yours then you have nothing to worry about :)
PAfarmerkid
February 7th, 2011, 05:03 PM
Thanks everyone, feelin pretty good bout it now. Still think its alittle weird having feelings for a guy but Ill get used to it. In fact I think I kinda like being alittle different than everyone else.
jack_dawkins
February 8th, 2011, 03:59 PM
Yea, you cant change the way you are; so you might as well go alone with it.
Being bisexual just means that you can still date girls too, and i guess you well get unsed to the feeling soon. So live your life the best you can.
sieg
February 8th, 2011, 06:32 PM
dont let others judgement make you supress the real you, just keep it safe for you and others....
Infidelitas
February 9th, 2011, 07:07 PM
that sounds 100% correct
swindy43
February 10th, 2011, 09:56 PM
yup!
PAfarmerkid
February 24th, 2011, 07:10 PM
Thanks everyone. It is still going great and talk to everyone I told everyday still. They are all in full suppoert and fully understand.
Infidelitas
February 25th, 2011, 03:23 AM
trust me youll be fine, i know you will be :)
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