Confusing sex help

[HAWAiiAN 808]

Ok, me and my buddy have been good friends since 1st grade and our families know each other really well. 3 weeks ago, he started to go out with a girl in a girl a grade below us, and he always told me that he wanted to date her since a few months ago. But now my problem is that his girlfriend is starting to want to hook up with me for sex. We were all at his house today just cruising after school. Me, my friend, and his girlfriend were all watching tv in his room when he said he had to go drive his cousin to his house that is probably 1 hour away. He asked me if i wanted to go, and i said no because i had to go to the weight room before i had football practice. He then asked his girlfriend and she said that she was tired and she was just gonna stay at his house. When he left his house, me and his girlfriend were just watching tv in his room until she sat next to me while i was trying to get some rest before i had to go to practice. Then out of no where, she asked me if i wanted to play a fun game. I was kinda bored so i said okay. She then proceeded to take off her shirt and as she was unbuttoning her pants, i told her to stop and asked her what she was doing. He response was that she knew i liked her and she wanted to have a strictly sexual relationship with someone else besides my friend because he was all about relationships and waiting till he's married. I was kinda thrown off because she knows me and him are super good friends and i was wondering why she would do that. But before i could tell her that i couldnt do this to my friend, she was already in her bra and panties and she was getting ready to have sex. As i got up to leave, i was about to open the door to his room when she grabbed me and pushed me up against the door. As i was looking at her, i couldnt help but think that she was already willing to have sex even though i barely knew her. After a while, me and her just started to have sex but the whole time, i felt like a douche because i was having sex with his girlfriend in his room. After about 20 minutes, we were done so i just put on my clothes, grabbed my stuff, and just wanted to go home and not even go to practice. Then at around 5 in the afternoon, i texted him all that happened because i would never try to hide stuff from him. Surprisingly, he wasnt mad at all. He was actually more relieved because he knew she wanted sex but he didnt want to have sex until he was married. I was just completely lost because i dont know how my friend could just let me have sex with his girlfriend, and be happy about it. He told me that if she ever wants to have sex with me, that i should just do it because he doesnt want to have sex because he aint ready yet.

I need some help on what i should do. Should i continue to have sex with her, or just tell my friend that i cant anymore because it would just feel weird. I need some opinions soon because she told me she wants to hook up again on saturday night at her house, but i dont know if i should go or not.

[Azunite]

If your friend says okay, if you find her attractive, why not?
However, your friend SHOULD have been kinda mad, if he says he is fine, maybe you should ask him more like " is it okay? " that stuf. Don't be ashamed because when he told you that it was okay, maybe he was trying not to get upset

[Perseus]

Maybe he just didn't want to lose your friendship. Don't do it if you don't want to, but she might end up being clingy to you and leave him for you. Personally I wouldn't do it because I'm a moralfag, but shit happens. :P

[Wisconsin]

i wouldnt do it but im strictly about being true and honest to my friends and to me that sounds like its using my friends gf for sex...(yes ik she wants to use you for sex these are just my thoughts) and i couldnt ever do that to my friend. i couldnt even look my friend in the eye if i were to do that

[restricted NA]

Don't do it anymore that is just wrong, having sex with your friends girlfriend. I believe that you should go get a relationship of your own, because the other situation is just weird. But good job about telling your friend in the first place. hope my opinion isn't to bold, sorry if it is.

[HAWAiiAN 808]

Don't do it anymore that is just wrong, having sex with your friends girlfriend. I believe that you should go get a relationship of your own, because the other situation is just weird. But good job about telling your friend in the first place. hope my opinion isn't to bold, sorry if it is.

trust me, i've been in enough relationships already and experienced a lot of ups and downs, lol. But hey, i like your advice. It was just weird telling him, but then i dont think i can look at him the next day after i had sex with his girlfriend, lol.

i wouldnt do it but im strictly about being true and honest to my friends and to me that sounds like its using my friends gf for sex...(yes ik she wants to use you for sex these are just my thoughts) and i couldnt ever do that to my friend. i couldnt even look my friend in the eye if i were to do that

thanks for the advice. I also am open to being honest and true to my friends, but this situation was just messing with my head, lol.

Maybe he just didn't want to lose your friendship. Don't do it if you don't want to, but she might end up being clingy to you and leave him for you. Personally I wouldn't do it because I'm a moralfag, but shit happens. :P

This is what i was thinking. Me and him have been through all kinds of stuff, whether it be good or bad, and we still had our friendship. But i was thinking that if i did just have a strictly-sexual relationship with her, then she would eventually want to date me and i could never take her away from my friend.

If your friend says okay, if you find her attractive, why not?
However, your friend SHOULD have been kinda mad, if he says he is fine, maybe you should ask him more like " is it okay? " that stuf. Don't be ashamed because when he told you that it was okay, maybe he was trying not to get upset

Me personally, i've always found this girl as the smart-flirtatious girls, which is a turn on for me. But just thinking that this is my friend's girlfriend is just to much to think about. And i talked to him again if he was mad, and he ultimately said that he was kinda mad because she lost her virginity to me, but it was in the past already and he said as long as were still friends, its all good. But i did let him punch me in the face because i wanted him to at least get some payback since i did have sex with his girlfriend, lol.

[dmeek7]

Maybe he just didn't want to lose your friendship. Don't do it if you don't want to, but she might end up being clingy to you and leave him for you.

Your situation, if you choose to continue with it, would eventually turn into a situation where she will probably leave your friend because he's not putting out like you are. You are pleasing her more than he is so therefore she could possibly, and most likely leave him for you. In that situation, your friend would be crushed, probably start hating you and you might lose a friend.

There are ups and downs for this situation and it seems like the downsides are worse than the upsides are good.
I personally, if my friend told me strait up to the face with no regret or any sign of lying, saying i could sleep with his girlfriend to make her sexual satisfied, and that he wouldn't ever get mad or anything, then I would DEFINITELY DO IT. Sounds like an opportunity that you possibly cannot give up.

[maxii]

at sum point she might leave him for you, because he is not giving her wat she wantz... dont do it