Dealing with it

[Infidelitas]

How do all you gay people out there deal with not being with someone. Im starting to get despirate

[Sosaku]

its difficult, and quite depressing at times, (especially when all your friends have gfs/bfs and you are an empath so you FEEL what they feel but can't have that of your own) but i just know that if i REALLY want it, i can try to find someone. If you hate being alone, find someone, simple as that, (<sarcasm)

[Deathwingo0o]

How about you're gay and in a country where gay is illegal and looked down upon... I feel so depressed now...

[Quahog]

You have to love yourself, if you want to love someone else. You'll find someone. Focus on school right now. I'm sure you will find a friend before too long.

[tyler007]

you can find someone and be with them im sure. I have a good guy friend who i am with, but we also date girls too. Right now i think im trying to figure it all out, about what i like and/or want. So trying it all, and i well decided later in life, after hs i guess about what lable i want.

[sieg]

i deal with it by, hmm idk how i deal with it. i kinda make it a game, though i dont think it would be apropriate to post on vt.

[PAfarmerkid]

Well, I have never been the type to date, and I personally like being single, but when I wouldnt mind to go to the movies or out to eat with a girl once in awhile, I think it'd be nice, but its no big deal to me.

[Severus Snape]

Extreme and endless loneliness. Every romantic advance I have tried has failed miserably and I'm not confident enough to try again.

[Sceneboy612]

Yes, being alone is rough, especially this time of year, but you are not alone. Thousands of the LGBT community feel the same way you do. Just keep looking up, and some day, you'll find someone who is right for you.

[greekboy]

Patience boy, you have a whole life in front of you to get this sorted - don't be in too much of a hurry. Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all of its pupils!

[Sire]

Be patient, any relationship started now would be a 99.999999% chance of break up. You will find someone eventually, I promise :)

[canyon]

How do all you gay people out there deal with not being with someone. Im starting to get despirate

I'm not gay, so I don't know exactly what you're going through, but being gay is just like being straight. How do you think a straight boy feels about not having a girlfriend? Just because you're gay doesn't mean you have different feelings, rather just feelings for the same sex.