Should I ask her about it?

[Darklifter]

I've recently became a part of a slightly sexual relationship. It started with intense make out sessions and now it's progressed to pleasuring her by rubbing her through her pants. I'm interested in sex, haven't had it yet. She claims to not want to have sex till we're married, but the way she throws herself at me sometimes and some of the comments she makes that sound like she's dropping hints about having sex, make me wonder. Should I talk to her about it?
I'm pretty sure that she would say that I know that she's abstinent, but even some of my friends agree she won't be abstinent for long. I mean really, she told me once that if we had been at her place we would be having sex during a make out session. Should I talk to her about it, or just let it run its course?

[keisha]

how old are you both?

[Darklifter]

17 years old

[keisha]

I would say, talk to her openly, and say that the make out session leave you wanting for more. if she loves you (considering she wants to marry you) she'd understand

[Darklifter]

The thing is though, I'm scared shitless about talking about it.

[keisha]

dude where are your balls.... lol just kidding... get you guts together

[Darklifter]

Lol well it's just her reaction to it that I'm afraid of.

[keisha]

her worst reaction would be a no.... she will not be mad at you coz u not forcing her which is a good thing... rather u would be a gentleman to clarify things

[Alaph]

You could start by offering to pleasuring her by rubbing her without her pants.

[Malcolm Tucker]

Puberty 101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[digzchickz]

Another thing that you could do (and make sure that you bring some condoms! LOL) Is just start making out and when it starts getting a little more intense just keep moving things along gradually, start feeling her up and then undressing her slowly and see is she is receptive to it. The only thing is that you gotta stop if she tells you to. But yeah, it kinda sounds like she is teasing you more than anything.