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Deathwingo0o
February 1st, 2011, 12:25 PM
Okay. I've asked several people for help but they are not responding due to time difference.
Anyway, I liked this boy who is younger than me by a year for 4 years yet never told him anything. Why? Because I'm afraid it might ruin our friendship and gay sex is illegal in my country(gay itself, however, is not defined). I'm going overseas by september and I desperately want to do something about it because I really really like him. Saw him gain today and I couldn't wait for my useless brain to give an idea. Any idea please?

smitty35
February 1st, 2011, 02:16 PM
is hew gay or bi? If you like him and are leaving tell him so you wont feel bad while you are away from him. And who knows mabye he will say that he likes you too

aaron4455
February 1st, 2011, 03:09 PM
same situation here dude except age differance and the gay sex thing but he acts like a homophob so might as well be for me and him so ive been told by some one to just tell him but i know waht u mean by its hard to tell him but u dont have to have sex to like him btw

Alaph
February 1st, 2011, 03:42 PM
Okay. I've asked several people for help but they are not responding due to time difference.
Anyway, I liked this boy who is younger than me by a year for 4 years yet never told him anything. Why? Because I'm afraid it might ruin our friendship and gay sex is illegal in my country(gay itself, however, is not defined). I'm going overseas by september and I desperately want to do something about it because I really really like him. Saw him gain today and I couldn't wait for my useless brain to give an idea. Any idea please?

Tell him how you feel.

greekboy
February 1st, 2011, 04:26 PM
If you are sure that he will respond positively to your advances then don't wait, just tell him. But from what you say about where you live it could be a major problem for you if he does not react well to your approach. You could try an openeing by discussing the concept of gay friendships and see his reaction before pushing it. Don't put yourself in danger.

Infidelitas
February 1st, 2011, 05:40 PM
Go for it. Worth a try. Where are you from?

Fact
February 1st, 2011, 06:42 PM
Puberty :arrow2: Relationships

Deathwingo0o
February 1st, 2011, 10:05 PM
I'm from Malaysia and I don't know if he is gay, bi or straight. I know it don't have to be like sex but I'm afraid if he sees me as a ghost after I tell him.