ok to look down girl tops?

[cooper.]

me and my friend play basketball at the school grounds and there are 3 girls there from school that talk with us and i look down their tops. is that rude of me or flattering? :confused:

[kiki776]

not very. you shouldent be looking in people's shirts cause they probrably dont want you to. and its not very apropriate.

[cooper.]

not very. you shouldent be looking in people's shirts cause they probrably dont want you to. and its not very apropriate.

one girl that's always there has no bra and almost see her nipple so maybe she wants me to look i thought but maybe not. what if its a 'girlfriend' is it ok then to look a lot?

[Bluesman]

one girl that's always there has no bra and almost see her nipple so maybe she wants me to look i thought but maybe not. what if its a 'girlfriend' is it ok then to look a lot?

If she's your girlfriend then talk to her about it... ask her what she thinks and tell her that you can see her nipples. Did it ever occur to you that maybe she doesn't want people to and isn't aware that they can?

[cooper.]

If she's your girlfriend then talk to her about it... ask her what she thinks and tell her that you can see her nipples. Did it ever occur to you that maybe she doesn't want people to and isn't aware that they can?

she's not my girlfriend but was i mean if she was would it be normal to look at them. no i thought she would know if her boobs are showing. they are really big and she is small (her body). i never talk to girls about boobs in case its rude but i look at them a lot just from reflex and not on purpose.

[Fiction]

If a girl has her boobs out, then they're out because she wants you to look. Either that or she likes the outfit, but either way she obviously can't object to you seeing that much.

[Alaph]

Depends on the girl, but it's best not to ask her, so decide for yourself.

[Kiss]

Personally I think it would make the girl uncomfortable -or at least I would be.
Unless she it was obvious she wanted people to look in which case she'd be wearing something that doesn't cover much of the area, so you wouldn't need to look.
I think a lot of girls are self concious about their bodies and may feel bad if you just look down their top.

[Weeping]

If I'd notice someone (except for my boyfriend :3) looking at my breasts, I wouldn't be glad.
I'd more be like ghfgblkahgf.. xD

And not wearing a bra, for example, doesn't mean she wan't you to look. It could just be that simple she find them uncomfortable, or don't wear them for some other reason. And it's not sure that she's aware that they can almost be seen.

[gingeylover14]

yeah it creeps me out when guys ask 2 look down my shirt/ touch my boob unless ita my bf whoni let do stuff lik that

[mmmark1985]

Hey good question because ive thougth the same thing. They gotta know whats showing right? They see their friends and things so...

[cooper.]

If a girl has her boobs out, then they're out because she wants you to look. Either that or she likes the outfit, but either way she obviously can't object to you seeing that much.

she got different colored tops but they all got the boobs open a lot. also i see nipples pressing.

Depends on the girl, but it's best not to ask her, so decide for yourself.

yep ill look a lot i think.

Personally I think it would make the girl uncomfortable -or at least I would be.
Unless she it was obvious she wanted people to look in which case she'd be wearing something that doesn't cover much of the area, so you wouldn't need to look.
I think a lot of girls are self concious about their bodies and may feel bad if you just look down their top.

this girls hot she has the biggest boobs i seen live.

If I'd notice someone (except for my boyfriend :3) looking at my breasts, I wouldn't be glad.
I'd more be like ghfgblkahgf.. xD

And not wearing a bra, for example, doesn't mean she wan't you to look. It could just be that simple she find them uncomfortable, or don't wear them for some other reason. And it's not sure that she's aware that they can almost be seen.

maybe she turned on by her boobs looking so good. i saw her hand rub her leg is that a sign she is turned on from me seeing?

yeah it creeps me out when guys ask 2 look down my shirt/ touch my boob unless ita my bf whoni let do stuff lik that

will she let me touch them if i ask politely? or only boyfriends are allowed? do you let close friends touch yours?

Hey good question because ive thougth the same thing. They gotta know whats showing right? They see their friends and things so...

yeah on a tv show i learned that girls know if their nipples are pressing through so i think same applies maybe to cleavage. i know when i got erections and if girls can see my pants bigger.

[John Marston]

me and my friend play basketball at the school grounds and there are 3 girls there from school that talk with us and i look down their tops. is that rude of me or flattering? :confused:

I don't think a chick (sorry if that's offensive to any girls on here but that's the name I commonly use for girls) would really appreciate that. Invasion of privacy and all. So, no, definitely not flattering. Probably shouldn't do it again, eh. Very rude of you.

[cooper.]

I don't think a chick (sorry if that's offensive to any girls on here but that's the name I commonly use for girls) would really appreciate that. Invasion of privacy and all. So, no, definitely not flattering. Probably shouldn't do it again, eh. Very rude of you.

oh thats not good.

[John Marston]

Yeah.

Wait, are you saying that what your doing is wrong or my response is wrong? You've confused me hehe

[cooper.]

Yeah.

Wait, are you saying that what your doing is wrong or my response is wrong? You've confused me hehe

i'm wrong if its wrong so you said its wrong so that means im doing wrong :(

[John Marston]

Yeah, sorry. IMO you're doing wrong. Prolly should stop before she notices.

[Name]

Its a little rude if you ask me haha, only because they get mad when you get caught

[Fact]

me and my friend play basketball at the school grounds and there are 3 girls there from school that talk with us and i look down their tops. is that rude of me or flattering? :confused:

Would you consider it rude if every time a girl spoke to you, she stared at your crotch?

[nick]

Would you consider it rude if every time a girl spoke to you, she stared at your crotch?
That's a fair point, but part of the question may be about revealing clothes. Now no guy wears trousers and underwear with a window for you to see some of his shaft, but some girls like to show off their cleavage which is kind of like putting every thing on display. If you do that then surely you know that horny guys are going to get an eyeful if they can?

[Fact]

That's a fair point, but part of the question may be about revealing clothes. Now no guy wears trousers and underwear with a window for you to see some of his shaft, but some girls like to show off their cleavage which is kind of like putting every thing on display. If you do that then surely you know that horny guys are going to get an eyeful if they can?

Some guys purposefully wear tight clothes so you can see their bulges. Also, I've known guys to look at boobs whether they're "on display" or not. I see your point though, the theory of "if a girl has her boobs out, then why should she complain if people look" kind of thing - which I mostly agree with. However if someone is trying to look down their top for the sake of getting an eyeful of breast, then it is rude.

[nick]

Some guys purposefully wear tight clothes so you can see their bulges.
Fair point, I guess some people of both sexes like to strut their stuff.


However if someone is trying to look down their top for the sake of getting an eyeful of breast, then it is rude.
I agree with you there.

[Charleigh]

Its rude if you go over to them and pull there top a bit and look down.
But if your just casually looking at there chests, not really.

[Rodeo]

I'm ok with it

[scuba steve]

As long as your discrete when doing so then no harm done, you can't exactly help it but it would be extremely awkward if you were caught looking.

[digzchickz]

Eh I'm not going to really say that it is "right" but I doubt there is a teenage guy (except maybe a 100% absolutely gay one) that hasn't done it.

[cooper.]

Its rude if you go over to them and pull there top a bit and look down.
But if your just casually looking at there chests, not really.

lol thatd be funny if i moved her top to look in heha. a boy got suspended from my school for moving a girls dress to look up.

[scuba steve]

a boy got suspended from my school for moving a girls dress to look up.

Creep.

[smitty35]

this is rude and you shouldnt do that

[ifnf9we]

I didn't wear a bra once and caught a guy staring and he told all of his friends he saw my nipples >_> Dont do it.

[codywengryn]

yes i do

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

I think if she has no bra on and shes playing a sport then shes pritty much doing it on purposee ...
personally i would never NOT wear a braa ... i hatee not wearing one it feels sooooo uncomfortable!!
but i dont mind when guys look at my boobss to be honestt
but ive got quite big boobs and you get used to it after a whilee :}

[LingeringLove]

My opinion is, as a girl, if their exposing their cleavage, then they obviously wouldn't put it out on show if they didn't want people lookin at it. To tell you the truth, I don't mind at all unless they make rude comments and are like O_O

[cooper.]

I think if she has no bra on and shes playing a sport then shes pritty much doing it on purposee ...
personally i would never NOT wear a braa ... i hatee not wearing one it feels sooooo uncomfortable!!
but i dont mind when guys look at my boobss to be honestt
but ive got quite big boobs and you get used to it after a whilee :}

Awesome :) :)

My opinion is, as a girl, if their exposing their cleavage, then they obviously wouldn't put it out on show if they didn't want people lookin at it. To tell you the truth, I don't mind at all unless they make rude comments and are like O_O

Thanks :)

[Orpheus]

I don't know how you could NOT look! If the girl catches you just say sorry, you couldn't help it and then try to be less obvious the next time. Once she's shown (by not wearin a bra) then you look out for the next time.

[kiki776]

if shes hanging them out shes begging for peekers, but did you ever think her boobs might be too big for her shirts? with a petite body it would be hard to find good shirts. idk about the whole bra thing but the only time i would have no bra is if im swimming sleeping or showering. the other time its just akward.

[louisgray]

What about this situation,your standing next to her and you are a lot taller so can have a peek discretly

[SuperSuraj]

Well its not okay to do it, but as guys we are going to do it any... if girls are going to wear low cut shirts with fancy bras its their fault haha. Just don't make it a habit because as you get old it becomes more and more creepy lol

[steve1234]

If a girl is wearing a top revealing a lot of cleavage, then she shouldn't get annoyed with boys for looking. I'm not saying its alright for boys to look, because I don't think it is, but what do you expect when showing a lot of cleavage?

I remember in the past I looked at a girls cleveage without even realising, so sometimes hormones take over a little :( But, that was when I was like 14/15 when hormones are crazy!.

So no, its not ok to look down girl's tops, but sometimes guys can look without really realising.

[kiki776]

What about this situation,your standing next to her and you are a lot taller so can have a peek discretly

still not appropreate (sorry if i spelled it wrong) i mean i dont really like it when guys look down mines so i either
A. put on a jacket
B. didnt wear it
its just not cool

[WhatGrowsUnderground]

Sitting there staring at a girl's boobs is pretty rude, although it sounds like that girl you mention might just be screaming "Look at me! Look at me!" But do you really want to attract that kind of girl? But I mean if a girl has it all on display, it's hard NOT to look every once in while, I understand. I'm a completely heterosexual female and my friends and I even look every once in a while, although we aren't really turned on by it or anything.

[absdude]

make sure they dont notice they will be pissed if theyre classy girls

[Tic-Tac]

It's ok too look, but don't touch, unless you guys both got "something" going on.
And just saying, I find overly big boobs icky.

[FBNIL97]

Seize the opportunity :P

[Spook]

I would feel like its rude... unless she pulled off her top and flashed you, you shouldn't be looking there. :P

[louisgray]

I personally always sieze the opurtunity of a peek,ive seen plenty of nips doing it but never been caught,make sure u dont get caught

[DanielJoe]

kinda freaky, but u have a natural urge to though

[Hokage]

I agree with Nick, why show off something you don't want people to look at?

[Brighteyes]

I suppose really we all have to be totally honest and admit that it simply has to be, and always will be, the Male's curiosity and interest as to what we (girls) have down inside our tops etc.....Such is life. :)

[briannafrmhell]

i dont mind if guys check me out but if im wearinf something that shows them im askin for it and girls have to know that

[anonymous53]

This might be old fashioned, I find it disrepectful if you sit there staring down anyone's shirt, even if you think they "want" you to look. You can look at their eyes while you talk to them :) It's quite easy.

[Lexy21]

I'm a really popular girl at school and boys look down my top it feels weird

[sophierocks]

i dont mind guys looking at my boobs if its someone i know but i prefer guys to ask if they can look because chances are, if i know you i will show you

[Hunter Lily]

It really depends on the type of girl, if she has it all hanging out then either she doesn't realize that it is, or she wants you to look. :D

[Lil Ill]

I really dxont think its ok, but I do think some girls dresss to get guys to look and some times its hard not to look, now I dnt make it known that I'm looking its always a quick glance when it come to my attention but I normally don't make it part of my daily routine

[Tristin.]

i think it would be the height of rudness to look down a girls top, but with that said, you could comapre it to staring at a guys ass... but still, if the girl caught you, trouble may ensue

[canyon]

me and my friend play basketball at the school grounds and there are 3 girls there from school that talk with us and i look down their tops. is that rude of me or flattering? :confused:

If she wanted you to look at her chest, she'd walk around without a shirt on. It's there for a reason..

[kookoo_dude32]

I think its probably rude,but im not gonna lie,i do it alot too

[Teen Vinny]

its normal for guys to want to look down tops, but be discreet. its not good to blatantly stare.