Need Some help

[Jackfelldown]

Ok well here is the deal Im kind of lost on what I should do, its like every girl I know is out to hurt me. Me and my ex broke up because she felt guilty that she was cheating on me o well. I dated her for a mounth. But hears were Im going with this I dated this girl my freshmen year and softmore and jr. on and off and the entire time I was with my ex I could not stop thinking of her. I mean she has a boyfriend now and were flirty with each other because of our past, but we don't talk out side of school. Its like i love this girl It might be me being crazy but i just started to think of her again while I was with this past girl.

ps the one that broke up with me did so because I use to be a jealous type of guy.

[The Madness.]

All you can do is wait it out if you really do like her. The thing is, you might just think you love the girl. Is she interfering with you at least giving more girls chances? Sure you went out with one girl. But do you think if you tried to go out with other girls you might realize you're not really 'in love' with said person? You only went out with one other girl, go out with some more and see if that doesn't change your opinion.

[Origami]

Honestly, from what I've seen of love games, "off-on" relationships are usually more detrimental than anything else. More often than not, they usually just 'cause the love sick victim, you in this case, nothing but continual pain. Then again, I've also seen a retrogression of heart lead to a very secure and lasting relationship, even with the given circumstances. The bottom line would be taking the time to stop. breath. Think to yourself, is it what you want? Is it worth the struggle? Is there a better alternative? Is this really love, or a childish clinging?
Hope somewhere along the line you figure it out.