would it be St8,gay or bi? [Archive]

bob skull

January 31st, 2011, 04:02 PM

Donkey

January 31st, 2011, 04:03 PM

Who cares, if you both enjoy it you don't have to label it or get worried. Why does it matter? Stay safe and you're fine.

GryffindorSeeker

January 31st, 2011, 05:33 PM

I'd say if you're just curious, do it. It will most likely be fun for both of you and hey, you'll get a blowjob!! :)

sieg

January 31st, 2011, 05:45 PM

i would still consider you straight

Sire

January 31st, 2011, 05:47 PM

Experiementing =/= Being gay

Unless you want to be in an -relationship- ywith a guy, you are nowhere near gay ^_^

Just enjoy it!

greekboy

January 31st, 2011, 06:09 PM

You have already broken the ice on this pretty well and seem to be happy with it. If you are interested in trying the next stage why worry about whether it breaches some arbitrary measure of gayness. if you both enjoy it, go for it.

pawn12

January 31st, 2011, 06:34 PM

sounds str8 to me

Wisconsin

January 31st, 2011, 06:48 PM

how can it be considered gay? its just like a girl giving you head except he knows what guys like...considering he IS one....

ponygon101

January 31st, 2011, 07:16 PM

If your just experimenting then go for it. I see nothing wrong with it.

smitty35

January 31st, 2011, 07:39 PM

Id call you str8 curious

Sebastian Michaelis

January 31st, 2011, 07:46 PM

id say ur str8 if u did unless like sire (nick) said u want to have a relationship with him

sdude

January 31st, 2011, 09:39 PM

Just go with it if you want to...just don't be an ass to him afterwards by feeling guilty!!

Rodeo

January 31st, 2011, 10:02 PM

I say go for it dude all guys want to anyway weather st8 or not. You will still be st8 after. I would just say you are st8 & curious.

curt_

January 31st, 2011, 10:16 PM

If thats what you enjoy bruh, it'll be ok for you. Although a 100% straight guy probably wouldnt. But do whatever makes you happy. See at your teenage years you're experimenting w/ different things so do whatever makes you happy. I have once.

ccrunner

February 1st, 2011, 11:48 AM

who cares you know what you are on the inside and thats all that matters if someone has a problem they are just jelous

jhp_813

February 5th, 2011, 01:55 PM

Experiementing =/= Being gay

Unless you want to be in an -relationship- ywith a guy, you are nowhere near gay ^_^

Just enjoy it!

i Agree

obbylue

February 5th, 2011, 01:59 PM

Just go with it if you want to...just don't be an ass to him afterwards by feeling guilty!!

This perfectly sum up how I feel. More important than whether or not it "makes you gay" (it doesn't), is not being a douche afterwards to a guy who took a big risk and is obviously a friend!

Severus Snape

February 5th, 2011, 02:07 PM

What do you mean "is it ok for a straight guy"? Like you would suddenly become gay for letting him give you a BJ? If a bi guy giving a straight guy a BJ means the straight guy becomes inexplicably attracted to men, I will eat my shoes.

Robbie

February 5th, 2011, 02:09 PM

its just a bit of fun my man :D

PAfarmerkid

February 5th, 2011, 02:40 PM

You'd defiantly still be straight, Id say go for it if you want it and is comfortable about it, wich from the sounds of it you do kind of want it or else you wouldnt be here askin bout it. Like everyone else said, just have fun and enjoy it ;)

tyler007

February 5th, 2011, 03:08 PM

Thats alright and no it does make you gay, I say you should go it and enjoy it.
It is just experiementing. And dont worry about lables, just do what you feel is right, and have fun.

Sor3

February 5th, 2011, 04:11 PM

yeh, i mean if you want to then go for it, just friends havin fun

jgibbsd

February 5th, 2011, 10:21 PM

Its Called Experimenting.

Kevvvv

February 14th, 2011, 05:56 PM

I think you guys are just experimenting what some stuff feel like which is totally fine, I don't think it's gay unless there's some sorta emotional sex going on which is apparently not the case here

sjfz

February 14th, 2011, 08:47 PM

JayJ

February 14th, 2011, 11:26 PM

i have this friend who i've wanked with before and i'm 100% straight and he's bi,and we've wanked each other before,now he wants to give me a blowjob....if i let him "blow" me would you say it would be ok for a straight guy to do?

Yes experimentation is perfectly normal for teenagers going through puberty. It's actually not uncommon at all, many females and males do it they just don't make it public. So ultimately i'd so go for it, it's not going to hurt anyone.

oreolover

February 15th, 2011, 03:57 PM

ya i agree its normal and it doesnt make u gay lol i agree with everyone above

Apollo.

February 15th, 2011, 05:14 PM

Yeah you will still be straight, you're only gay if you could have a relationship with a guy, you're just curious.

Brandon K

February 15th, 2011, 05:22 PM

its just experiementing. nothing wrong at all with it. have some fun. i want to expierment.

tpzy94

February 19th, 2011, 12:23 AM

yeah itll b straight ur juss curious n hell like it too n its u guys lil secret

avid reader

March 30th, 2011, 10:11 PM

All that it is is curiosity, just go for it.

rusty171610

March 30th, 2011, 11:21 PM

Your still straight, its probs just a bit of fun

joshfitz96

March 31st, 2011, 12:13 AM

Your just curious. If you and your friend are both comfortable with it, than i'd say go for it.

AussieBiBoy

March 31st, 2011, 02:11 AM

I think some people on this forum take things a bit far when saying getting a blow job from another guy is straight behaviour! Now doing it doesnt mean you are gay but you clearly must feel some level of sexual attraction to him. You wouldnt even be considering it if you werent curious at least, maybe bi. Now Im not saying not to do it, but dont live in the illusion that doing it is perfectly normal for a straight person. I think that you have jacked each other off already indicates that you are curious as all the straight guys I know would be strictly against touching another guys penis. I say good on you if you do do it but realise (and you probably do in your heart) that you feel some level of sexual attraction and that doing it might make the attraction grow :) PM me if you want to talk some more about it <3

MusicManic

April 9th, 2011, 05:04 PM

Gay means that you want to be in a relationship with a guy. That you have feeling towards guys. You are just curious. Don't worry about it.

JoshKnotts

April 10th, 2011, 10:11 PM

Its fine. Don't worry about labels!

wwwood

April 19th, 2011, 12:11 PM

It's only gay if you make it gay.

If your going "all the way" or you want a relationship.... then you would be considered gay/bi

rider15

April 19th, 2011, 12:45 PM

you might as well, if your not attractd to him then its all god right?

HotBiBoy

April 19th, 2011, 01:05 PM

Straight, as long as you don't bend over. He may try a move on you.

Ryunosuke

April 19th, 2011, 01:34 PM

Yeah, I Think It's Fine. I Mean If You Want To then Whatever. Just Make Sure You Keep It Safe!

Vrill

April 19th, 2011, 02:07 PM

look, I'm very young. You obviously enjoy being with a boy for now. If you j/o together.
I say, let him blow you, enjoy it & it's part of growing up. Most of us do it! Let him empty you
If he wishes. After all, it's very pleasurable too cum?

lightkun

April 19th, 2011, 03:54 PM

is the possibility of being something other than straight really that bad?

SWMG

April 19th, 2011, 04:13 PM

If you are just experimenting go ahead

donkeymkong

April 19th, 2011, 05:06 PM

Gay, bu and straight are just labels - If you're not sexually attracted to him, you're not gay or bi. I know I have jacked off with a few friends and one wants to exchange bjs, and I'll probably do it and I'm straight

chris4827

April 19th, 2011, 06:50 PM

i dont think that an act that you both enjoy and are okay with need's some sort a label. i guess that if you wanted to look at it from a complete straight perspective then i guess it would be considered gay. but i think that it would rather be labelled as curiosity maybe? anyway it doesnt really matter. just enjoy the moment :)

HikaruTheHunter

April 19th, 2011, 07:23 PM

It's really called experimenting so you are still straight. If you decide to be in a relationship with him then it'll be either bi or gay depending on your attraction towards girls. You'll be fine, do it, have fun, and experience life.

macbox84

April 19th, 2011, 09:30 PM

dude ur getting a bj its fine and its gay ur only gay if u have feelings for him. ur just curious and it also not gay if u enjoy it..its a bj.

Orpheus

April 19th, 2011, 11:16 PM

Dude, I'm totally 100% str8 and I'd def let him do it. I've never had a bj from a dude, but I've had one from a girl an they say guys are even better. Go for it -- just don't take advantage of his friendship too much.

canyon

April 19th, 2011, 11:32 PM

If you don't have a problem with it, I don't see why not. If nothing else, you get a blowjob and he gets to experiment with a friend. That's like a win-win in my book.

CaliKiDD

April 19th, 2011, 11:44 PM

....if yu want to do it ...do it do you it really doesnt matter if its okay...as long as your content with yourself your okay...go get your blowjob

randomlyonhere

April 19th, 2011, 11:56 PM

dude... a free bj is a free bj, it doesnt matter whos mouth it is.

User Deleted

April 20th, 2011, 12:24 AM

somewhere between straight and hermit (hermit = preference: no attraction)

TheBlackRose321

April 20th, 2011, 10:40 PM

If your comfterable with ur sexuality that your fine

zackm

April 20th, 2011, 11:06 PM

I myself have given head to 2 guys who are straight and more that are gay/bi but the straight guys are still straight and I have also kissed a straight guy that has a girlfriend now. You're only gay if you are attracted to guys. Plus you might decide you want to give him head, also something a straight friend of mine has done to me. Perfectly fine just go for it, enjoy it, and be cool too him after. No one likes a gay basher. :)

quackenbush

April 20th, 2011, 11:42 PM

I think you're just curious. You probably want to do it just to see what it would be like. Basically, you're curious bro.

silly teen

April 20th, 2011, 11:45 PM

it all depends, if you like the fact your with him you should go ahead, but if you dont like it, dont.

Shadowhunter

April 26th, 2011, 06:21 PM

unless you are looking for more out of this like a relationship with him....but other than that I'd say you are just experimenting and you are fine man.

Lil Ill

April 26th, 2011, 06:58 PM

look I know I don't have any experience in this area, but if you two have already jack each other off then why stop now, you two must enjoy each others company on some level,do why stop now

cookie.-.monster

April 26th, 2011, 10:23 PM

U should he proud of yourself :] u did the hard thing and that's to break the ice! Now he wants to take it to the next level :] and u should be glad of that, and no I don't think it's non of the 3, ur still straight and u just should enjoy cuz u only live once, but only one thing: play safe :]

FreddyXD

April 27th, 2011, 01:00 AM

It's only gay or bi if you have feelings for him.

FreddyXD

April 27th, 2011, 01:01 AM

So how'd it go? Did you do it?

kezyy

April 27th, 2011, 01:40 AM

It's normal enjoy it

nick carter

April 27th, 2011, 02:02 AM

as long as you're enjoying, go :) nothing wrong with it and it doesnt make you gay as long as you treat it as "experimenting" with another guy :>