Do I have to have chastity belt on it suck?

[Micheal96]

I'm 14 and I've had a belt on for nearly s year it sucks, it doesn't hurt or anything and it's not really that visible but I grt really bad times now where I'm like I wanna masturbate and stuff!

[Alaph]

No, you can and should take it off.

[Micheal96]

If I could I would do it right now dude!

[car_krazed94]

i didnt kno what u were talkin about till i googled it. and dude id take that shit off. i dont think i could go w/o jackin. and they look like they really hurt D=

[Alaph]

If you've kept it on for a year, it's about time you took it off.
You'll probably get an infection or something if you don't.

[Fourth Dimension]

dude i would find a way out of it somehow find bolt cutters to break the lock on it or something thats not right to be forced to wear one

[Deathwingo0o]

I'd rather cut off my dick than to have one of those. Y did u not object in the first place?

[Micheal96]

I did kinda object but I didn't get any choice just it's going on kinda thing! It's not on like soothe time bath time it comes off but that's about all

[brandon.t]

Why do u even have it?

[Micheal96]

It just doesn't let me jack it basically :( or have sex but I don't even want sex yet anyway! But I want to jack off sometimes

[Deathwingo0o]

I did kinda object but I didn't get any choice just it's going on kinda thing! It's not on like soothe time bath time it comes off but that's about all

Ur parents erm, forced it on u?

[Micheal96]

Ye I didnt want this stupid thing on it sucks! But they say its safer I have it on and they have the unlock key thing so I can't just take it off

[Sith Lord 13]

1) Do they take it off to clean it? If not, it's unsanitary, and almost definitely child abuse. If they do, don't let them put it back on. If they try to force, defend yourself minimally, then use the force they used to argue in court that they're abusive. I'm not sure if being made to wear the belt in and of itself is considered abusive, but it's most definitely not right.

[Deathwingo0o]

Ye I didnt want this stupid thing on it sucks! But they say its safer I have it on and they have the unlock key thing so I can't just take it off

I think your parent is scared you might get AiDS or sth like that. Try to talk to your dad so he can understand how it feels to be caged all the time. Good luck.

[DrkZ90]

this IS child abuse. If they won't take it off voluntarily, you should definitely call the child services / police to force them too. This WILL hurt you and will actually get in the way of you developing normally.

Do NOT stand this any longer mate, you deserve better.

[Deathwingo0o]

this IS child abuse. If they won't take it off voluntarily, you should definitely call the child services / police to force them too. This WILL hurt you and will actually get in the way of you developing normally.

Do NOT stand this any longer mate, you deserve better.

You can't blame his parents mate, with the death tolls of aids rising. Best thing for him is to discuss with his parents.

[willrod]

If this guy is serious, this definitely sounds like a case of child abuse- in which case you should call the authorities. You definitely have a right to not wear something so barbaric! Though on another note, I don't think this discussion is really appropriate...

[suza23]

If this guy is serious, this definitely sounds like a case of child abuse- in which case you should call the authorities. You definitely have a right to not wear something so barbaric! Though on another note, I don't think this discussion is really appropriate...


I think it is appropriate. He needs help in a time of his life. And these responses can be helping him. So relax brah.

On the other hand you should definitely ask them to take it off. I would recommend not telling them if you call the cops wait for them to show up

[Zanpakuto]

Jeez, and I thought my parents could be overprotective. oO
Yeah, I agree with everyone else, you should really go to the authorities about that and definitly not let them force you back into it if it gets taken off again... that's just cruel.

[greekboy]

I have seen some weird shit in my short life but this is so wrong on so many levels. I googled it to see what it was and after reading your responses above I am now really upset and very angry. This is abuse, I don't care what is going through your parent's mind. Talk to an adult freind, teacher or counsellor and get some help now. and the guy that mentioned AIDS - what the fuck is wrong with you.

[Jstr]

Dont blame him
Although he did say he will wait to have sex
ask your parents if your can take it off
IF THEY SAY NO than call athorities
Like wut DrkZ90 said it can effect the way you grow

[Micheal96]

Thanks for advice guys, and yes it's washed every day usually when I go for bath and it gets taken off and washed. They always say it's for my protection and i can hav it off when I'm 16 :(

[Skeptical Bear]

Thanks for advice guys, and yes it's washed every day usually when I go for bath and it gets taken off and washed. They always say it's for my protection and i can hav it off when I'm 16 :(

How old are you? If you don't mind me asking...

[Micheal96]

I'm 14

[Skeptical Bear]

God. They shouldn't do that to you. I'd get authorities, like everyone else has said. It's completely messed up. It shows that they don't trust you. The next time they take it to wash it, refuse to put it on. Say that it's very uncomfortable and that they can trust you on not doing anything they don't want you to do. You can't control your hormones at that age either, so it's not your fault if you want to do anything sexual. You do put it on your self? Right? If they try to force it on you, then fight back. Talk to an adult about this and how it discomforts you. Try it.

[sdude]

This isn't protection, it IS definately abuse. Talk to your school counselor or go to the police, or if you want, tell your parents thats what you intend to do if they don't take it off. Absolutely ridiculous and illegal.

[Rodeo]

Dude I would talk my parents into letting me out of it even if you have to lie. That is stupid to make you wear one. But at least you can wank when you bath and I would.

[Infidelitas]

How do you pee through it if you dont mind me asking?

[Alexithymia]

That's what I was thinking. Sorry... bit perverted here.

At any rate, this isn't specifically child abuse by neglecting you somehow, but it is creating unnecessary stress on yourself and harming the way you develop sexually. In my book, that's child abuse any day.

[Randy99]

why are you even wearing one?

[aaron4455]

ya thats going a little to far FORCING that on u

[Deathwingo0o]

I have seen some weird shit in my short life but this is so wrong on so many levels. I googled it to see what it was and after reading your responses above I am now really upset and very angry. This is abuse, I don't care what is going through your parent's mind. Talk to an adult freind, teacher or counsellor and get some help now. and the guy that mentioned AIDS - what the fuck is wrong with you.

No sex= reduced aids
I din say it's right, its just overover protective. Happy?

[yohotoyo]

this is so wrong i dont even know where to begin. even if they are your parents, they CANNOT under any circumstances force you to wear it. period. it is abuse, and you should tell the police or somebody that can help. a counselor, child protective service, ext. do you live in america?
the only decision a parent can make about there sons penis is whether or not to have him circumcised at birth. and it's only at birth when the child has no decision making skills that they can decide for them. once you grow older (in america, i don't know about other places in the world) they can't force you to get circumcsied so your story is baasicaly the same thing. it is your penis and your body.
it can also cause medical problems. constant skin exposure to any type of metal is not advised, same goes for leather. and it will probably stunt growth and development of the genitals. that area, your crotch, needs fresh air alot, otherwise it can start to smell or itch, or give you a serious inffection of some sort.
i really hope you take my advice on getting help from someone that can be trusted. if you dont want to wear something then you shouldnt have to unless it goes against indecent exposure (being naked in public, or a women with a see threw shirt.) but your case is totaly different than that because you'll still be wearing underwear and pants when you have it taken off. as for them not wanting you to have sex, to bad. they can ground you or something, or they can get legal help if your underage and you want to do it with an adult, but other than that, it's your decision. i hope things work out, good luck!

[ccrunner]

i would try to get it off and sith lord 13 thats not right, you dont know the full situation so dont pull the abuse card i agree with you that it is not right one bit but if it is not harming him physical there is no abuse, and michael96 dont try to fight your parents about the abuse part dont take em to court or have any legal action because it will just ruin your family forever

[Deathwingo0o]

i would try to get it off and sith lord 13 thats not right, you dont know the full situation so dont pull the abuse card i agree with you that it is not right one bit but if it is not harming him physical there is no abuse, and michael96 dont try to fight your parents about the abuse part dont take em to court or have any legal action because it will just ruin your family forever

That's what I'm talking about. Legal actions because they love you too much might be overrated. Try to talk them out of it. I can't imagine having one of those on mine. It must feel really really bad. If you don't mind me asking, how do your parents make sure you wear it after bath? In school won't anyone else be surprised that yours is kept "on" whenever they c you?

[greekboy]

No sex= reduced aids
I din say it's right, its just overover protective. Happy?

I said that because yout comments suggested that putting a cage on somebody could be acceptable if the parents were trying to prevent him from getting aids as if this was some sort or justifiable reason. That is just asinine. Why not cut his balls off then so he won't get testicular cancer. There is no justification for what they have done to him. it makes me sick just thinking about it again. We should be focussing on getting this kid some help.

[DrkZ90]

not getting this off WILL ruin you forever. You are growing, and your body needs space to grow. By being forced to wear this, not only you are at a much higher risk of all kinds of infections and diseases than everyone else, but you're also at risk of not growing in a normal, healthy way.

You have to take it off, and never put it back on, as soon as possible. If you ask your parents and they refuse, then call the autorities and bring legal action against them. Regardless of why they do it this IS child abuse and should NOT be tolerated.

[greekboy]

That's what I was thinking. Sorry... bit perverted here.

At any rate, this isn't specifically child abuse by neglecting you somehow, but it is creating unnecessary stress on yourself and harming the way you develop sexually. In my book, that's child abuse any day.

Child abuse takes many forms, not just neglect. This could result in severe psychological problems later in life, let alone the sexual frustration that is only going to get worse. It's not like he is unknowing in this, he knows about masturbation and orgasm and yet is unable to achieve it. The trauma alone of a 14 year old, sexually aware boy, being subject to this level of examination every day is significant and in my view criminal.

[Micheal96]

I guess I though more of u guys would be in the same thing as me:( but ye I still jack it when it's off in the bath usually! And mine isnt like something really old it's all like plastic apart from the part my thing goes in and you can still pee as normal! Just means I gotta bend over abit so it goes in!

[Deathwingo0o]

I guess I though more of u guys would be in the same thing as me:( but ye I still jack it when it's off in the bath usually! And mine isnt like something really old it's all like plastic apart from the part my thing goes in and you can still pee as normal! Just means I gotta bend over abit so it goes in!

Lie to them that you had put it on after bath? I guess they wouldn't try to ask you to show that you wore it. I hope.

[Micheal96]

They will just find out I'm lieing when I come to have it unlocked next bath time! It sucks though because I have 3 brothers and because there not 12 to 16 they don't have to wear one, like I know my 11 year old brother and my 17 year old one always jack it and I can't! I hate rules!

[Deathwingo0o]

They will just find out I'm lieing when I come to have it unlocked next bath time! It sucks though because I have 3 brothers and because there not 12 to 16 they don't have to wear one, like I know my 11 year old brother and my 17 year old one always jack it and I can't! I hate rules!

If locking requires nothing, don't wear it until you almost time for bath. That ought to work out. Damn, talk to you parents about it. Why did your brothers don't have to wear it but you do? Just try to find out why.

[florays]

Hi, I'm in the same situation. I have to wear a belt because my parents don't want me to play with myself. The belt comes on when I'm off from school and was unlocked every morning. I have to wear it 24/7 on weekend and vacations. I'm from Europe and I would like to talk to other boys who are forced to wear such a dammned cb

[Voodoo]

I'd definitely take that thing off, it looks like it hurts and very uncomfortable.

[smitty35]

that is so f-ed up! you need to get the thing off now! and it is considered child abuse, there is no law against jacking of in the US, privately

[Nathan_B]

dude. Take that shit off. lol

[canyon]

I'm 14 and I've had a belt on for nearly s year it sucks, it doesn't hurt or anything and it's not really that visible but I grt really bad times now where I'm like I wanna masturbate and stuff!

Well, it kinda depends. Did you choose to put it on yourself, or did your parents? If you did yourslef, it'll probably be easier to just stop wearing it. But if your parents asked you to wear it, it'll probably be harder to get it off.

[florays]

My parents say it's family law. If i failed in school there is no right to watch TV, there is no right to meet friends AND there is no right to jack!!! The belt doesn't hurt really. But I'm unable to take it off.

I'm 14 and I've had a belt on for nearly s year it sucks, it doesn't hurt or anything and it's not really that visible but I grt really bad times now where I'm like I wanna masturbate and stuff!
Hi, I'm in the same situation
wanna talk to other boys with this problem
parents locked me up in the evening and no self playing
please contact me ( Please)



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[greekboy]

Hi, I'm in the same situation. I have to wear a belt because my parents don't want me to play with myself. The belt comes on when I'm off from school and was unlocked every morning. I have to wear it 24/7 on weekend and vacations. I'm from Europe and I would like to talk to other boys who are forced to wear such a dammned cb

Oh shit, another one. Where are you from in Europe. i am in the UK and there is a universal human rights law here that prohibit such things being done against your will. You must challlenge this with all of your ablility. it is completely wrong.

[florays]

Hi greekboy, I'm from Germany. I don't know the rights. My parents say it's ok with the belt because I'm naughty.

[Gopher]

This is something you should discuss with your parents, if they are forcing it on you it is child abuse, your 14 right? If so your old enough to know the consequences of sex and mature enough to stay safe, a chastity belt will not guarantee protection against STD and STI's, only it will reduce the risk. talk to your parents, if they do not allow you to remove it or gice you the choice, then contact child services or the police, it is not right.

[Deathwingo0o]

Hi greekboy, I'm from Germany. I don't know the rights. My parents say it's ok with the belt because I'm naughty.

You must really be naughty then :)
Kidding. Can't you guys try to get rid of it? I don't think it is harder than a safe, or is it?

[persiandude]

thats just wrong....get rid of it.....its not worth whatever purpose its for

[Lookingforfun]

sorry dude i could not handle that

[screammonster123]

as ambarassing as it maybe i would talk to your parents
if it is bothering you that much i am sure you will do that

[dodgecaliber2007]

did your brother who is 17 have to wear from from age 12-16?

[Chris1994]

Hi guys, I've read this forum for awhile but registered just to reply to this post.

First, I don't think this is a joke by the OP. Some parents do this. My bud got a condom found in his room and his parents forced him to wear one of those things all summer.

For those saying report it think about that. They might force you to leave home and live in foster care. "Where's Matt? Oh, didn't you hear? His parents put this thing on his dick so now he is a foster child downtown."

You think THAT is such a great alternative????

Sounds to me like a bad situation all around with no good answer.

[skichris]

how do you pee? if you can take it off to pee, then rub one off then..

[Deathwingo0o]

Hi guys, I've read this forum for awhile but registered just to reply to this post.

First, I don't think this is a joke by the OP. Some parents do this. My bud got a condom found in his room and his parents forced him to wear one of those things all summer.

For those saying report it think about that. They might force you to leave home and live in foster care. "Where's Matt? Oh, didn't you hear? His parents put this thing on his dick so now he is a foster child downtown."

You think THAT is such a great alternative????

Sounds to me like a bad situation all around with no good answer.

That's the whole point. For me I'd rather put it on than getting in a foster situation even though I'd much prefer to j/o. But I'm not saying to agree silently either.

[HellHound]

Brutal penis bondage,fukin' sick

[atomsmasher]

There is no way that's safe. If you get a boner and it has no where to go, that can't be healthy.

[xDLOL]

Take that atrocious thing off of your penis and live life. That's insane, call the cops man.

[SylvioUltima]

Not kidding, If i had to WEAR a freaking belt so I couldn't jack off, I'd jump of a bridge. I Just google-images them, and DISCUSTING. That it totally barbaric, and I would beat the living crap out of my dad if he tried that.

[connormac]

yeah that's not right; talk to them about why the hell theyre doing this

[just]

its your body dude, that looks so medieval age!!, we are an XXI!! remember?, first talk with them, if not, force to dont use it, if that doesnt work too, go for something legal.

[SWMG]

This is not fair at all

[russsh]

take it off now & keep it off

[mikey4444]

Surely this guy is having us on ? Not even Americans parents would force a child to wear such a thing. If he is genuine, then somebody needs to report the parents to the authorities as soon as possible.

Of course, he is pulling our legs than lets hope he grows up real soon. This isn't remotely a topic to make jokes on.

[jason_smitty]

Weird and abusive if its true dude

[Marku]

Hi, I'm in the same situation. I have to wear a belt because my parents don't want me to play with myself. The belt comes on when I'm off from school and was unlocked every morning. I have to wear it 24/7 on weekend and vacations. I'm from Europe and I would like to talk to other boys who are forced to wear such a dammned cb

What kind of belt are you wearing - I also wear one.

Marku

[ImCoolBeans]

Please don't bump old threads - this is from a year ago :locked: