Meh...

[Glasgow]

Well. For starters...I have no fucking life at all.

While other people my age are out doing stuff with friends, or at parties/dances, im at home sitting in my computer chair. Every night its the same, I havent properly hung out with any of my friends or attempted to make friends in a long time. I mean, i have friends at school, im happy at school. But when i get home im just depressed all the time. I need advice on how to get more active, and no i dont wanna ride my bike around town or walk. I dont call people :( Thats one of the reasons why i dont ever have anything to do. Another reason is all my friends are never on MSN, and when they are im doing something important (Like on myspace or im too lazy to go anywhere or homewokr or something)

Anyways yea, this is really putting me down lately. My parents arent helping much either, telling me i have no life. I can hang out with this girl named Sandra, but she lives sorta far, and I dunno. Shes sort of weird

I dunno where im going with this, i just had a talk with my mom about how I dont have any friends, my dads upset because i left him and the hockey game for the computer. But what else is new. I just felt like gettin this out in the open, reply if you want, although it probably wont do any good

[schrei jess]

Im the same way. I have some friends at school, my best friend lives like a while away from me - not easy to hang out with her. I even have a friend in the neighborhood but I just dont feel like doing anything. Every night Im on the computer as well, but I like it - it is what I want to do.

And we wont be able to help you, you have to get out and change what you're doing. I know that I wont be doing things on friday nights until I start getting out there and making plans, but Im just not up for it.

[Bankai15]

Find something you like to do at home. Or get one of your buds phone # and try calling them sometime.

[mRojas2000]

I can relate... you can't even imagine how hard it was for me... I had a life on Venezuela... I had tons of friends, and I was popular... everyone knew me, and I was cool. But then it came the moment I had to leave.. I knew it was the right thing to do... I didn't want to live in that shit anymore... living in Venezuela is a joke!! so ridiculous. In venezuela, I already had a computer addiction... if I couldn't fucking go out... and I was only 11!
So I went to the states... I can't describe how amazing it was... but still, my aunt wouldn't let me out... my computer addiction got even bigger... I was almost 24/7 on the computer... at least it was always on, and I could wake up late at night and use it... it was always there for me... yeah I still had friends at school, awsome friends!! they always helped me, and supported me... was it passing some test, asking a girl out, giving me advice... they were just awsome and I couldn't thank them more... I left america being 12 and I like I said I had a huge computer addiction.
But then it got the moment I had to come.. I wasn't sure if it was the right thing to do... I mean I almost had a life, and I was popular again, and I loved america like if I was borned there.. I really loved it... but I also wanted my family that I had left, so I went to italy... here I had a 3 month summer... awsome!! I wasn't much on the computer, because I would normally go out with my parents and stuff... I still didn't have any friends, and I didn't even know italian. So when I got to school I got pretty popular... just by the fact of being American impressed many people... still more knowing spanish, english and now learning italian... I was rocking the school... and people I didn't even knew would come up to me, and talk to me and stuff... it was pretty weird... but I still wouldn't trust many people... I mean, I destryed 2 lifes already, to start another one... I wasn't sure anymore... thats why my computer addiction got even bigger... I could stay 25 hours a day on the computer (yes, I said 25). I didn't want to go out.. the funny thing is that now I have more liberty than I could ever imagine... I have my own bike and whenever I want to go out I just take it, and go out.. but do you think I ever do it?? NO! why?? because I'm at the computer... why?? Because I have an addiction. Sometimes my friends call me to go out... I just tell them that I don't want to or invent silly reasons for not going... I dunno.. I still don't even feel that I have something as a 'best friend'... I don't even know if I can call the people that I know for longer 'friends'. I'm confused now, and it sucks... I don't trust anyone, to even tell them that I did this or that.. I sometimes feel ignored by them.. maybe thats why.. but thats just another problem...

The whole point of that, was just to tell you that you are not alone Paul... I'm here, and like people have said here they are like that too... don't think you're a freak...
I'm also starting to try (well, sorta...) going out a little more... since I now have magic and I would say that I'm pretty good at it, I wanna start street magic!! Find a hobby that involves going out (not magic please, because you would be going out a little LATER)... there are many stuff you can do!!

[Glasgow]

That's exactly it. I have grown so addicted to this machine that I think it's the only way to have fun. You see, I went out more in the summer, but now that it's getting closer to winter less and less people want to actually go outside and do stuff. I can still go over to peoples houses, but i dunno. I miss the computer, i need msn and the internet. Maybe i should just wait a year, highschool I will make tons of more friends, there will be parties, and ill get exposed to what life really is. By the way, thanks to everyone who responded, i really appreciate it :)

[Smeller]

I had the exact same experience mRojas2000
Moving to a whole diffrent place
I was like that. I am still I just find other ways to "entertain" myself no pun intended
but yea on the computer i was doin the same thing.. But stayin home no doing anythin makes you think ALOT! Hell I read when I'm really bored or box or learn new stuff about me that i havent learned but yea its hard

[Aηdy]

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