Coming out . . . .

[Infidelitas]

Ever since I came out three weeks ago, My quality of life has improved so much. Anyone who is still in the closet . . . dont worry because they will understand you . . . Just a little message :P

[Skeptical Bear]

I wouldn't say that in my situation.

[Charleigh]

There are people in life who will judge you, and wont be quite as understanding as some. But, well done for coming out of the closet. I talk to someone who is so understanding and he has been through alot himself, and he doesnt judge. Im lucky to have found him and talked to him, but there has been people who have judged me and havent been so understanding. So just be careful.
And if anyone needs someone to talk to, im here for everybody.

[RAWWR]

I think coming out can be good and bad, But i'm glad you have had a positive experience. Just be careful as some people will judge but those people aren't worth worrying about.
(Oh, and this thread is full of Charlie's :D)

[nick]

Ever since I came out three weeks ago, My quality of life has improved so much. Anyone who is still in the closet . . . dont worry because they will understand you . . . Just a little message :P
I'm glad it went well for you, it was the same for me, and its a great relief to have it out in the open. But we have to accept that it wont always go as well for other people. I would hope that, given a little time to get used to the idea, most parents would have the sense to realise that nothing has changed, you are the same child that they have always known and loved. But sadly there are some very closed-minded people out there and some parents that just cant be accepting. So congrats to you, but dont assume every one will have it so easy.

[frankie97]

wouldent work for me sadly :'(

[car_krazed94]

after i came out i felt like a 100 lb weight was lifted off my shoulders. i didnt have to hide that i was bi anymore. my mom accepted it till she saw a pic of a guy on my phone then all hell broke loose. and as for my friends. the ones that said not to talk to them anymore just showed me that they weren't my real friends. a true friend sticks with u no matter if ur bi/gay. my dad didnt care he still dont. my gma nd gpa on my moms side freaked out and told me not to show my face at their house =/. at that time yes it was a suprise to my family. after a while they didnt care but i told them to go rot. (yes ik it sounds bad) but if they loved me like they said they did then they wouldnt of cared if i was bi/gay. its been almost a year and i made new friends and alot of the friends that ditched me came back to me. =D my life has gotten better in ways and worse in ways. but im happy that i dont have to hide my sexuality from any1 anymore =]

[greekboy]

Well done. That was very brave. There are many people on this site that would love to be able to do this without the obvious repercussions. You must be either particularly confident and /or be surrounded by supportive people. Congratulations

[Infidelitas]

I never thought telling my mate would be easy, but he loves the idea of having a gay friend

[LoveMe_HateMe]

I kind of wish I could come out but... my parents, I don't know how they'd act to having a bi daughter... And on top of that, I really don't want to lose any of my friends, and yeah, I know if they were real friends they wouldn't care but... I know it happens, it happened to one of my friends. I don't want to be going through that. Not losing people I thought cared.

[Infidelitas]

I kind of wish I could come out but... my parents, I don't know how they'd act to having a bi daughter... And on top of that, I really don't want to lose any of my friends, and yeah, I know if they were real friends they wouldn't care but... I know it happens, it happened to one of my friends. I don't want to be going through that. Not losing people I thought cared.

things will work out for you in the end :)