Unwillingly Gay

[suza23]

Are any of you guys like me on this?

I am gay attracted to guys and would experiment with them but in my future i cant see myself with one.

Even though i am not sexually attracted to females i still want to be married to one with kids and everything.

[sdude]

yeah, I hear ya, one of those harder things to go through...but I know that more gay couples are having kids, either adopted or surrogate, so no worries man...just grow to be the best person you can be..gay or straight...

[Skeptical Bear]

I'm in the same position. I'm Bisexual though but a bit more attracted to guys. I want to marry a woman someday and have kids too.

[nick]

I used to be the same and for a long time was in denial about being gay as a result of it. The wish to have a "normal" future, wife & kids, was really strong. I tried to prove to myself that I was straight but ended up proving to myself that it was a lie. In the end you have to come to terms with your own sexuality and learn to accept yourself however you are.

[frankie97]

Thats exactly how i feel. I want to be with a male but at the same time i want to have kids and be a father. But i dont want my kids to know im gay so im really confused.

[Tristin.]

im gay, i cant see myself living with a woman or marrying one, yet i would love to have kids :D
i have names and everything picked out already :P

[greekboy]

I used to be the same and for a long time was in denial about being gay as a result of it. The wish to have a "normal" future, wife & kids, was really strong. I tried to prove to myself that I was straight but ended up proving to myself that it was a lie. In the end you have to come to terms with your own sexuality and learn to accept yourself however you are.

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[Deathwingo0o]

Are any of you guys like me on this?

I am gay attracted to guys and would experiment with them but in my future i cant see myself with one.

Even though i am not sexually attracted to females i still want to be married to one with kids and everything.

I feel the same too bro. I think I'm bi based on this thinking. I can't imagine how do gays have children you know. How do we tell our parents that they can never have a grandchild. That's the thing that bothers me alot.

[MoveAlong]

Personally I think it's a phase. You're young an naive. You can't imagine a lot of things right now. It's not like it's not possible if you can't imagine it or comfortably imagine it.

[Sire]

im gay, i cant see myself living with a woman or marrying one, yet i would love to have kids :D
i have names and everything picked out already :P

Tis the same for me honestly :P If you want to be with a man, Be with one! You can still have children through surregates/Adoption, hell by that time artificial wombs ought to be invented so you could -technicaly- have a child with both fathers dna.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

I've never felt that I had to be straight to have a family, I've always known there are other options so just get informed and you might like the idea of having a family with a male partner

[ajackson9523]

I'm in the same position. I'm Bisexual though but a bit more attracted to guys. I want to marry a woman someday and have kids too.

i feel the same way. i want to have a wife and kids. but i want to b open with my wife, and maybe even her being bi too. but i always jus wonder if i want a wife because thats the way society wants it to be lol idk i might jus b losin it. HAHAHA im 24hrs with out sleep :D

[Severus Snape]

I wouldn't be opposed to dating and eventually marrying a man. Unfortunately I haven't found anyone yet I would be remotely interested in living with for the rest of my life. If you don't see yourself being able to have a male as a life partner, you probably won't have a male as a life partner. Of course since teens are generally very conscious about doing things that wouldn't be socially abnormal, you may grow out of that notion and become more fully comfortable with your sexuality.

[grstl]

I am really torn. I realize I am gay now, but tried to be straight for a while...so I have a girlfriend and a kid (boy). I am not out except to her now. She dislikes it but wants to stay with me. I still try to do what I can to make things work for her and the kid....because I am responsible. However, I have recommendations from all this:

1. Sort out your sexuality before anything serious happens (relationship or kids)
2. Never try to be what you aren't
3. Be up front with your partner and kids and be sure your partner is supportive before a kid comes.

Discoveries afterward are so hard to work through!

[Lights]

Sounds like denial to be honest. It's a really sad thing that gay people can't have children of their own biologically, and it kills me too; but I know I'll be okay when I find that boy who's gonna make me happy. And if he's really the right person for me, he'll be interested in adoption or having children through some form of fertility treatment as well.

It's difficult, but don't live a lie. If you're sexually attracted to males, that's telling you something. Women aren't for you. Hell they're not for me either, I just see them as friends!!

[persiandude]

i understand what ur going through......at first i thought i was sexually attracted to men but couldnt see myself with one in the future....it broke my heart thinking if i was i wouldnt be able to have the "ideal american family"wife and two kids......overtime i realized that its no necessarily the end of my future but a new path.....i still can have kids in the future......we are all young here so dont worry s much about the future because ur missing wats happening right now in life......goood luck

[canyon]

Are any of you guys like me on this?

I am gay attracted to guys and would experiment with them but in my future i cant see myself with one.

Even though i am not sexually attracted to females i still want to be married to one with kids and everything.

I'm like you too. I like the idea of having sex with another guy and everything, but I can't ever picture myself being married to one; I always picture myself with a woman and having kids.
Idk, it's just how my brain works I guess. I like thinking about having sex with other guys, but I don't want to be in an actual relationship with one.