My Nana. . .

[boeder]

My Nana Died recently and im finding hard but im not showing it? :(

[Ravenous]

Dont be afraid to show your emotions i cried lots when my grandad died (last year) my other grandad and my grandma on my dads side have all passed away aswell but i was too young then too realise how bad that was.

[ScotsGirl]

:hug:
Im really sorry to hear that. But i agree with Tim, ^^ dont be afraid to let you're feelings show. Anyone who has had to deal with grief knows how extremely difficult it can be.

"Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water."

People arent going to judge if you let them know you're having a hard time coping and dont ever think that it makes you weak or anything like that. It shows that you are able to care so much for someone else other than yourself, proving you to be unselfish and a great person.

xxx

[boeder]

I want to cry but i cant its a bit awkward. . . :(

[Shaolin]

I can see where your coming from, alot of people grieve outwards and cry their hearts out. Other people grieve inwards, crying inside, and feeling nothing.

Talk about it with someone you love. Tell them you are having a problem expressing they way you feel about Nana.

It's not wierd or strange for you not to cry and nor is it your fault your reacting this way. No one can take death easily, and by not crying, thats not what your doing.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

i just went to a funeral yesterday, and i was feeling kinda the same way. i didnt wanna cry but theres really nothing you can do. in the end my tongue and lips were bleeding cuz i was biting them so much :/

just dont worry about it, crying is a great way of feeling better later

[ScotsGirl]

:hug:

Lynne
xxx

[Anonymous]

you should cry when your alone. That's what I do When my grandma died, I cried. Then my dad wouldn't let me go to the funeral (I went anyways). It hurts, but atleast she had a good life

[boeder]

Thnx 4 all urs help, im going to her funeral on Tuesday!