I need advise

[Concrete Angel]

Ok so hears where the story starts, so I realized I was bi at like the start of summer last year but I didn't think that much into it & about halfway through the summer i went to go work at a summer camp as a lifegaurd & at camp there was this guy there his name's Brad & he is one of the sweetest, nicest,& funniest guys i've ever met & hes also really cute, anyways he worked in the main office so I didn't really see much except when we weren't workin & stuff like that. And then we started talkin & hangin out on the weekends between camps & at camp like all the staff my age including Brad would be like all over each other & i didn't matter if you where a guy or a girl. And so 5 weeks later camp is over & we all go home & we don't really live near each other so we talk over facebook & texts & lately i've been thinking that I like Brad as more than just a friend but idk if hes bi or straight so my only friend who knows im bi since im not out yet was gonna ask in over facebook, & I was wondering do I want her to ask & know for sure or should I just ignore my feelings about it & not have her ask him, so i'm asking VT for a second opinion about it. So if you can please help me because idk what to do

[Quahog]

I would just ask him, if you are friends with him. I'm sure he wouldn't mind telling you. Whether he's straight/gay/bi whatever, I'm sure you can still remain friends with him.

[nick]

I think it would be better if you talked to him yourself. One approach would be to try to discover his attitude towards gay and bi people in general, and then if he seems tolerant to come out to him yourself. He might well just tell you his sexuality then, and if not it would be easier to ask anyway.

[Sosaku]

lol, they stole my answers...*points at nick* *pouty face*....*smiles* YAY FOR GOOD ANSWERS!!!!(disregard the caps =-p)

[greekboy]

lol, they stole my answers...*points at nick* *pouty face*....*smiles* YAY FOR GOOD ANSWERS!!!!(disregard the caps =-p)

yeah, Nick always steals my thunder too. The problem is he's always right, the bugger.

[Sosaku]

yeah, Nick always steals my thunder too. The problem is he's always right, the bugger.

yea, do i don't mind too much, as long as the person gets good advice lol, that's important(at least to me:P)

[Concrete Angel]

So I have decided that on Wednesday I'm gonna ask Brad if he's bi. Hope he says yes :)

[nick]

Good luck

[Fourth Dimension]

best of luck to you what nick said is a great response

[mr.sexy_bomb]

Yea I also think that you asking him is better, so good luck :)