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Hokage
January 26th, 2011, 06:36 PM
Hahah now the situation gets worse though, um my ex and I had a pretty rough relationship before and this girl knows about it because I guess it circulated around her friends and stuff. I have a strange feeling this girl that I am interested in already has an impression that I'm a bad guy. What am I supposed to do?! I have been thinking about this all day.
The Madness.
January 26th, 2011, 07:50 PM
Just get to know her and spend time with her. Don't come to these conclusions just yet. Show her you're not a bad guy and that you really like her, that she has reason to like you too. :)
Daniel_
January 26th, 2011, 07:51 PM
your supposed to talk to her and show her your not a bad guy. but don't ask her out until you become rather close as friends, but not too to close, or you'll likely find yourself trapped in the friend zone.
Hokage
January 26th, 2011, 09:53 PM
Thanks, the friend zone is something I have been trapped in a lot!
Dimitri
January 26th, 2011, 10:06 PM
I am stuck in the friend zone all the time and I ticks me off. But are you a bad guy? Maybe this is a time to show this girl that what your ex told her was wrong. Do what is right if you have too. Show this girlt hat you like thta you are beeter than what your ex has told her. Prove that you can be what she wants you to be and that you are not the mean guy.
Hokage
January 26th, 2011, 10:47 PM
I'm not a bad guy but girls I know can't take break ups very well and make stuff up.
Dimitri
January 27th, 2011, 05:56 PM
I am sorry but there are many girls who just like to be that way(I am sorry if I offend anyone)
Sage
January 27th, 2011, 06:35 PM
Realize that, in the case that you are rejected, it isn't the end of the world and that there'll be other people.
jamieallover
January 27th, 2011, 09:33 PM
Hahah now the situation gets worse though, um my ex and I had a pretty rough relationship before and this girl knows about it because I guess it circulated around her friends and stuff. I have a strange feeling this girl that I am interested in already has an impression that I'm a bad guy. What am I supposed to do?! I have been thinking about this all day.
I'm going start of by saying, this is a problem I face no matter who I'm with also. You just have to think of it as, if this girl is honestly going to believe what is said about you instead of finding out for herself how you truly are is a person, shes not worth your time. Try to hangout with her. Explain that rumors tend to be spread around, and just because certain things happened in your past relationship does not mean that, that is how your relationship with her would be. Things are different depending on the person and not every single relationship is the same.
:)
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