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rEpReSsIoN.?
November 30th, 2006, 06:03 PM
Well okay heres my story and i want to come to a decision whenever i should tell her (being my gd friend) im gay/bi.
Okay i have told her im bi once before but she was like 'r u sure' and 'im like that sometimes it doesn't mean anything', and so i chicken out saying it was justa phase and i didn't really feel anything and to forget it, but now we have both matured and i dunno. And she has noticed there is something bugging me at the moment when e.g. i was going out with my ex gf... and now she keeps asking wat is wronge and i don't know if i should tell her, sometimes i do sometimes i don't... i just worried that it might slip out (e.g. to her bf, or her other friends) if she is drunk or just says it randomly by mistake... she not homophobic nor is a she annoying girl like she thinks all gay/bi people like pink fuffy things and going shopping and all the ushall stereotype.
She is a really good friend and i fell like i owe it to her but i don't have the experience to know if its the right thing to do because i don't want to be open to everyone yet.

grimlip
December 1st, 2006, 08:29 PM
It's a tough descision to tell a friend. I mean I was afraid to tell my best friend at first but then once I told her I was bi we talk about what guys we think are hot all the time and stuff. She was really cool with it. Although that might have to do with her being bi too. I also told another friend and he was cool with it.

But if this girl is a true friend she wouldn't let it slip out even if she was drunk so I think you should tell her if you truely deep down trust her.

latedeveloper313
December 12th, 2006, 03:59 PM
I can't decide wheter to come out or not either .... its so difficult :(

rEpReSsIoN.?
December 12th, 2006, 06:24 PM
well i did and it was g8 do it m8

Trademarked
December 13th, 2006, 07:05 PM
GOOD JOB!!!
how did it feel?
did she say anything?

rEpReSsIoN.?
December 14th, 2006, 12:00 PM
it was really gd... and she took it really well and we are proberly closer now

football
December 15th, 2006, 09:10 PM
gratz