So, the boy found out I liked him...

[Lights]

I told a friend about this boy I really like in school (over text), and the boy now knows I like him. My friend claims that her friend read her texts and probably told a few people, but I don't know if that's a bluff to be honest.

Either way, this boy that I really like knows that I like him, and he's not been that great about it thus far. It probably doesn't help that a few people have asked him what he thinks me of me liking him. We used to get on fairly well, but now we're struggling to even make eye contact. He feels really uncomfortable that another boy likes him, and apparently he told someone else that he just needs time to get used to it. He makes it sound like he's such a victim. It's not like I asked him out or hit on him or anything!

I can't get him off my mind anyway. I really wish I could kiss him, or at least hug him. I'll never get that kind of opportunity now that he knows I like him more than in just a friend way. I just find his physical appearance to alluring, and I can't help it. I wish he would just be okay that I like him.

Just needed to let this out. Tips and advice would be appreciated.

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

Urghhh if he cant get over himself and see what a nice ladd you aree
His loss :) haha
It could turn out to be a good thing in the end
If he just needs that little push to date guys thenn ehh who knows :)
Dont worry about it hun its normal to feel like this ...
just dont text people who you fancy its so easy to get round then :/
It will be awkward at first ... always is ... but it will get better in timee
-Good luckk :) x

[PJay]

Yeah I think vikki nailed that one = his loss but if you'd done nothing, nothing would happen for sure.

[scuba steve]

Alot of people who say they're straight like to have a homophobic social shield around them in order to help them stay in the clear. I'd imagine by saying that he needs time to get used to it is probably this. If he's also gay/curious whatever then I'd imagine he'll come round to the idea eventually and if he doesn't, avoiding for the rest of the year? Then he probably really is a homophobic dumb ass who needs to enter the 21st century. That or you know, he could just be scared that he will lose any sense of social credibility, depends on you neighbourhood I guess.

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

Aw thanks for the reputation you guys means alot :) <3

[Lights]

Thanks for the replies, guys. I appreciate them all.
I just can't get over this physical attraction - he's such a turn on to me and I find myself fantasising about him a heck of a lot.
But I think I've screwed up the friendship we had. I know he's not very comfortable around me because he's avoiding me, and when I am near him I can read his bad body language like a book.

I am dying for a kiss; a real one.

[Mrs.KermitTheFrogx]

Drug him and kiss himm LMAO imm jokinn !!
DONT do that ... !
it happens with straight people just as much
sometimes they avoid peoplee that fancy them anyway xx

[Lights]

I'm completely infatuated by him - I just want him. I just have that desire to 'get on him' if you get what I mean.
I spoke to him about how I felt about him directly on Facebook chat a few days ago which I hadn't done before. He was really good about it and said how it wasn't my fault I liked him, and just generally how he didn't mind. That casualness doesn't always pass into real life though. For instance we were changing for PE yesterday and he told somebody else that he thought I had watched him change and waited for him to leave before leaving myself. Half of that was true... I was watching him change, but I thought I did it really quite subtly!! I guess he suspects it now that he knows I like him. Dang he has a bloody hot body though. But I didn't wait for him to leave before leaving myself; I was still in the changing rooms for like 5 minutes after he went.

So yeah, he seems to be fine with things, but perhaps a little uncomfortable with certain things, which I guess I understand. I just wish I could have a relationship with him because that would be euphoria for me. So much as a hug would be wonderful. I got contact with him after a goal celebration yesterday, and it was kind of like a hug, but not one if you see what I mean? It was just celebratory contact.