Are you out of the closet? [Archive]

Vonn

January 24th, 2011, 10:44 PM

To my circle of friends and immediate family, sans brother and dad's girlfriend, though possibly my mom's favorite sister knows. That's as far as it goes for now.

Skeptical Bear

January 24th, 2011, 10:46 PM

Same here. Only people on the internet are worth telling for me because I know they live nowhere near me and don't know anyone I know. I'm not out yet.

Scooby Dooby Drew

January 24th, 2011, 10:46 PM

A couple of good friends
... a few bad friends too.........
But that's about it~

aaron4455

January 24th, 2011, 10:47 PM

Honestly no im not, the only people who know im bi are people on the internet.

same:yeah:

Voodoo

January 24th, 2011, 10:48 PM

People don't, only the people on the internet.

yoda

January 24th, 2011, 11:08 PM

Yes to my good friends, and my mom later after that, and some others.

Fourth Dimension

January 24th, 2011, 11:19 PM

my close friends

Quick_Sylver

January 24th, 2011, 11:39 PM

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

Questions about sexuality go in Teen Sexuality for future knowledge.

Buddy

January 25th, 2011, 12:01 AM

i am to 2 girls and 1 guy

Kitty Purry

January 25th, 2011, 12:30 AM

yess:D im completely out.. except to my dad lol..

Syvelocin

January 25th, 2011, 01:40 AM

Totally and completely out. I reached a point where I didn't understand why I wasn't being true to myself. It just didn't make sense anymore to hide who I am.

drac

January 25th, 2011, 02:41 AM

I am out to just 1 person, and vt.

TheSleepingInsomniac

January 25th, 2011, 04:40 AM

out to my sister but thinks i'm joking and the internet.

RLuna

January 26th, 2011, 09:29 PM

Well im starting to think as myself more bi than curious. But no one except people on here know that i could even be curious much less bi. I worry when it comes to coming out

PAfarmerkid

January 26th, 2011, 10:07 PM

Im just really curious right now but a few close friends know and of course VT.

sky anna

January 27th, 2011, 05:00 PM

I am out of the closet. The first people I brought home were girlfriends which made my mom cry. Lol. Everyone I talk to regularly knows. The people in my family that I rarely talk to probably don't know but that's not because I've ever tried to hide it. I just don't find it neccessary to always talk about my sexuality. Too many bi people do it just to get a reaction or have a pity party for themselves when people don't accept it. I'm the opposite, close minded people who don't accept homosexuality/bisexuality/heterosexuality really bother me and piss me off and I tend to let them know right then exactly how I feel.

Mrs.KermitTheFrogx

January 27th, 2011, 05:16 PM

i never said so ...
everybody in my High School knows anyway and most of the Boy high school across the road know though.
But i dont get bothered by it atall ...
but its an all girls high school so theres quite a few lesbian/bi's ...
and so do my parents... im gladd it saved onn the shit scary talk ... ;) x

PJay

January 27th, 2011, 05:51 PM

Zazu

January 27th, 2011, 06:13 PM

I don't particularly go shouting it about, but if people ask, I have no reason to hide it.

Sebastian Michaelis

January 27th, 2011, 06:16 PM

I am not only out, but I replaced the door with these cute hanging bead things, put a tasteful little rug outside and popped some scented candles in the closet just in case anyone else found themselves in there.

lol. that thats what that made me do

IM NOT AND NEVER PLAN TO TELL ANYONE IN MY FAMILY OR FRIENDS

blackmusicbox215

January 27th, 2011, 10:14 PM

I'm out to only a few of my friends.

Infidelitas

January 28th, 2011, 04:20 AM

Im out! But I dont go telling every one I see. if someone asks, ill tell em, but otherwise its not important. I was supprised with how accepting my mate was

lilum

January 28th, 2011, 03:19 PM

my friends know im bi but not family...noooo :L

frankie97

January 29th, 2011, 12:28 PM

no one knows except peple on VT

car_krazed94

January 30th, 2011, 06:06 AM

Im out! But I dont go telling every one I see. if someone asks, ill tell em, but otherwise its not important. I was supprised with how accepting my mate was

same here. i dont go up to every person tellin them im bi. if some1 mentions it i tell them. they dont like it i tell them i dont care cuz its my life not theirs.

Talia

February 1st, 2011, 03:33 AM

Only some of my friends, and one other person who I've known for almost 10 years or so actually knows that I'm not straight. I don't hide it online, but I definitely don't expose it in real life.

ajackson9523

February 1st, 2011, 03:11 PM

im only out to a couple ppl like a couple of my friends and my sister. if my parents were to find out they'd prob send me to a doctor or something. they r completely against it becuz of their religion UGH

Severus Snape

February 1st, 2011, 06:20 PM

Honestly no im not, the only people who know im bi are people on the internet.

I'm the same. I don't particularly feel comfortable coming out to any friends or family. I am considering joining the LGBT club on campus so maybe I can confront these issues more effectively.

Also your second sig quote is really good.

dilydan

February 4th, 2011, 01:17 PM

Basically my whole family knows other than the "older generations" :) Everyone in my year at school knows as well, not that I go around telling everyone I see it's just they all know now. If someone asks though I'll tell them the truth.

TheSleepingInsomniac

February 4th, 2011, 04:26 PM

Chriss

February 16th, 2011, 09:11 PM

No , I just feel I couldn't live with the taunt .
Me and my friend classify our selves as straight , but we're close and have experimented...

Nathan_B

February 16th, 2011, 09:37 PM

I am :) for the most part. it's not exactly Facebook official haha.

LilTurtle

February 16th, 2011, 09:39 PM

i am 100% gay and 100% out since i was 13.

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AudioCity

February 16th, 2011, 09:42 PM

Im out but only for like 10 months it took me ages to stop hiding myself lol

cheergurl

February 17th, 2011, 12:11 AM

just my sis and close friends kno

Lindsay

February 17th, 2011, 12:47 AM

With the family members who live in my house, my friends and Facebook. So yeah...I guess I'm out of the closet. Most of the rest of my family don't know I'm gay, so I'm not COMPLETLY out of the closet... But for the most part, I am. :)

AddiEast

February 17th, 2011, 01:09 AM

Hell Noooooo!!!!!
My mom would cry
My dad would shit a brick
My older bro would beat my ass
My little bro would my embarassed
The kids at skool would talk about it behind my back
The mean ones would tease me - I know two that DEF would
My best friend - Im scared to even think about it

My older sister? This is the one person that im real close to telling. Cuz I know she would be cool with it

thebige

February 18th, 2011, 03:28 PM

1/2 out

Apollo.

February 18th, 2011, 05:34 PM

I'm not sure I think I'm gay but I don't think I will ever be able to come out to anyone. My friends would not talk to me
My parents would just be weird about it.
My sister would think I was a freak.
The only one who wouldn't hate me would be my sisters boyfriend.

Nobody

February 18th, 2011, 07:49 PM

I am out... to everyone except my grandparents... I agreed with my parents that I'll tell them once I have a serious relationship... until then it's not neccessary... cos we all know they'll be disappointed more than anyone else...

thatweirdguy

February 18th, 2011, 08:53 PM

im out to a few close friends but too scared to tell anyone else. could do with some help please.

With_The_Rain

February 19th, 2011, 02:04 AM

Yes and no.
I don't really make a conscious effort to hide it from most people, but I don't go out of my way to make it obvious either.
My closest friends know, as does my sister, but most people (aside from those online) don't.

Izzybella

February 19th, 2011, 03:08 AM

my older brother and sister (twins) know my brother is trans and my sister is bi so I didnt even really have to come out to them they kinda just knew...a couple of friends but besides that just people online. I dont hide it online like I do IRL

RAWWR

February 19th, 2011, 09:05 AM

I am out, I came out when I was 13 :D

Preacher

February 19th, 2011, 10:12 AM

I'm completely out, everybody knows! Really, when you feel safe comming out, do it! The quality of your life will change ;)

Marky

February 20th, 2011, 01:48 AM

the only ppl know i am bi are too friends and the internet. beyond facebook n myspace

TeenageDream

February 20th, 2011, 10:34 AM

Never made an official announcement, but didn't feel I needed to. What I do in the bedroom is my business. I don't hide it, but don't go out of my way to tell the world.

Jaye

February 22nd, 2011, 06:30 AM

I've never hid it (I don't think I was ever really 'in' the closet) but I've never officially announced it.

(This made for some great conversations were I'd offhandedly say "So you know how I'm bi?" as an introduction to something else I was going to say only to have my friend do a spit-take. And I made my parents 'spit-take'. Both at seperate times. Was most amusing. :cool: )